jworm49 Posted February 7, 2010 Posted February 7, 2010 A few months ago I told a girl friend of mine that I have feelings for her. She said that she was glad that I told her but thought we should just be friends. I don't see her or talk to her too often but we stay in touch through text messaging and I see her from time to time at work. I work part time at a restaurant that she works at full time. Last Thursday I was working the door for the first time. After my shift I went to the bar for a dink and as I did I got a text from her. See she loves to tease me sexually and I've told her I enjoy it so go ahead and do it if it's fun for you. It's become a little game of sorts we have been playing for the past few weeks. So she says "I heard that you were hosting tonight what are you waring? I'll tell you what I'm waring" So I played along for a bit and finally told her that's it I'm coming to see for myself. When I got to her place I went right in and gave her a hug and we just talked for a bit. I have a thing for feet and heels which is the main thing she uses to tease me with. So I told her I wanted to paint her toes for her. After that I put a pair of her heels on her and we laid spooning on the couch for a movie. I really don't think she was trying to tease me but I was holding her tight and rubbing her all over which see was enjoying. Eventually I couldn't take it anymore so I started kissing her and taking off her clothes. We had very passionate sex that night but one thing seemed odd to me. As we were having sex there was a lot of passionate kissing as well. At times I would back away to just look into her eyes and she would just pull me back in start kissing me again. To me all that kissing seems very personal for a casual sex thing. So my question is this. Is kissing an oddity in casual sex or is that just me? I kissed her a few times afterward as well before I left. At this point nothing has changed as far as I can tell between us so I'm just waiting to see what if anything els happens. Thanks everyone.
skydiveaddict Posted February 7, 2010 Posted February 7, 2010 I think she's kissing you like that because she is interested in more than casual sex
carhill Posted February 7, 2010 Posted February 7, 2010 Cynical version? She's in between boyfriends. If you become a 'friend' (again) as fast as you became a lover, there's your sign
Author jworm49 Posted February 7, 2010 Author Posted February 7, 2010 skydiveaddict I hope you are right because that is what I would like to have happen.
Author jworm49 Posted February 7, 2010 Author Posted February 7, 2010 carhill I think I get you but would you mind explaining a little more?
carhill Posted February 7, 2010 Posted February 7, 2010 She's a mixed message girl. Rebuffs your approach with the friendzone, then teases you and ultimately has sex with you. I think you titled your thread correctly. Ask her out on a date and see. Happy to see my cynical self wrong
Author jworm49 Posted February 7, 2010 Author Posted February 7, 2010 OK I got ya. Well I'm supposed to see her this coming weekend so we'll see what happens.
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