JoJola Posted February 6, 2010 Posted February 6, 2010 I made my boyfriend really angry at me a couple of weeks ago, I was upset and IM him a few things and apparently his duaghter read it..he never responded to me at all...the only response i got was a text from him stating that his duaghter read them and Not Kool. So fine, i did apologize for that..but then he ignored me for almost three weeks..when i asked him if he didnt want to see me anymore he would not respond even when i asked him to text me the answer..he didnt even have to face me. I also had stuff at his house, so i asked if i could have it back, still not repsonse..i sent 4 messages total and not response! So then yesterday I have a group list on my phone for group text messages, i was not thinking when i sent out a message to all my friends about a trip to the UP that we have been planning..as well as thanking all my friends for being there for me cause my mother was recently diagnosed with cancer. So anyway, within two seconds he text me...I had forgotten he was on my list. Asking me a ton of questions..so I talked a bit but didnt have alot to say...really I mean I kind of figured it was over, ya know! He asked about the trip, wanting to know when etc....I dont know what to do about that right now. So, then today he has been IM all day...when I told him I could not talk cause I had to drive .... he agian started asking quesitons.."where are you going"..well Im at the gas station when that came through so i didnt anwser..he again IM "ok, C ya then" (i know he says tht when he is pissy bout something)...so If am asking what the heck is this man doing? I mean, he would not respond to me at all for almost three weeks...I sent two messages early before I realized he was ignoring me and then two more about my stuff..no repsone at all. Other than that It has been completely NC..now he is talking to me like nothing ever happened? I mean I love this dude...why I dont know but I do and my heart cant handle the playing around..i was just starting to not think about him all day, only half. You guys always give good advice on here...help!!!!
Ashkayi Posted February 7, 2010 Posted February 7, 2010 Well first all I can say is that he had no reason to ignore you for 3 weeks no matter the circumstance. He should have told you bluntly that it was over, or that he needed time. Whatever the circumstance you cant be at fault for something that his kid read on his computer, he shouldnt have had her there knowing his im's were on anyway. So, either there is more going on here than hes telling you, another girl perhaps, or he is just stubborn and went off the deep in and now is regretting it and feels bad. I dont know what kind of dude this is, or your situation but you should have at least gotten an answer as to why he wasnt talking to you.. Sounds exceedingly childish to me.
Author JoJola Posted February 7, 2010 Author Posted February 7, 2010 childish is what I thought too..I mean this guy is very stubborn and at times I thought he was bipolar, but geezzz! He knows how I feel and he also knows I hate it when he ignores me; we have had that convo! My problem is if there is someone else, or he does not want to see me I have given him every out possible! I have asked bluntly and he could send me an answer via text..so what type of behavoir is this; how do you interpret this. I guess Im thinking maybe he has lied to me all this time we were together and didnt care at all or possibly have commitment issues? We were together 7 months
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