mortensorchid Posted February 6, 2010 Posted February 6, 2010 I got a voice mail message from a guy I've been seeing for the last few weeks. Three weekends in a row we went out, he is awesome! And I'm not just saying that because I've been out with psychos and jerks, he really is a good guy. I got a voice mail message on Thursday of this week saying that he has Friday and Saturday plans (family stuff). I called him back that night (I was taking a nap when he called) saying that if he had other plans this weekend that was ok with me, as I had other things to do as well. That was a lie, by the way, I have nothing else to do. He did say to me in the message that maybe if he can get home early enough from the Saturday plans that maybe we could see each other that night. But I haven't heard from him since. Think he really meant that? I'm hoping that he will get back to me soon. But I'm going to wait for him to call me, I don't want to bother him or anything. Am I right? I'm feeling just bored as can be right now and wish I had something to look forward to this evening, but I can find something else to do.
You'reasian Posted February 6, 2010 Posted February 6, 2010 I got a voice mail message from a guy I've been seeing for the last few weeks. Three weekends in a row we went out, he is awesome! And I'm not just saying that because I've been out with psychos and jerks, he really is a good guy. I got a voice mail message on Thursday of this week saying that he has Friday and Saturday plans (family stuff). I called him back that night (I was taking a nap when he called) saying that if he had other plans this weekend that was ok with me, as I had other things to do as well. That was a lie, by the way, I have nothing else to do. He did say to me in the message that maybe if he can get home early enough from the Saturday plans that maybe we could see each other that night. But I haven't heard from him since. Think he really meant that? I'm hoping that he will get back to me soon. But I'm going to wait for him to call me, I don't want to bother him or anything. Am I right? I'm feeling just bored as can be right now and wish I had something to look forward to this evening, but I can find something else to do. How about the other guys you're dating? jk
zwieback.toast Posted February 6, 2010 Posted February 6, 2010 Simplistic answer: Call him, say "My schedule freed up for Saturday night if you're available. If not how about brunch on Sunday?" If he's gone out with you several consecutive weekends then he def. likes you. Don't blow it by playing games. You DEFINITELY don't want him to think you were maybe seeing someone else this weekend, make SURE he knows that you weren't dating someone else while he was gone, in a subtle kind of way. Guys have these kinds of insecurities too; if he really was with family and you told him you had plans for this weekend he would probably be obsessing over whether you were with someone else and this might put a crimp in things for you.
melodymatters Posted February 6, 2010 Posted February 6, 2010 No, no no ! Don't call ! They have JUST started dating. He was the one who had other plans, she just went along with it. He SAID family, for all we know it's another gal he's interested in. I believe the ball is in HIS court as he said he MIGHT get back earlier sat. If not, HE should make contact to make the next plan !
Art_Critic Posted February 6, 2010 Posted February 6, 2010 Hey MC.. you've done nothing wrong.. just go find something to keep yourself busy or go out to a movie or something.. Wait for his call in response to your call to him..
BobSacamento Posted February 7, 2010 Posted February 7, 2010 Well the proper move on his part should have been to NOT mention the possibility of meeting up tonight, but to leave it at "I have plans Friday and Saturday night". Instead he should have just gave you a call if he happened to be free later on and see if you were not busy. A gentleman doesn't make a woman wait by the phone.
Greenpeacer Posted February 7, 2010 Posted February 7, 2010 Well the proper move on his part should have been to NOT mention the possibility of meeting up tonight, but to leave it at "I have plans Friday and Saturday night". Instead he should have just gave you a call if he happened to be free later on and see if you were not busy. A gentleman doesn't make a woman wait by the phone. Just immature. Just next time say no biggie lets do next time. And go out with GF's. Also //If he's gone out with you several consecutive weekends then he def. likes you.// Agreed.
Author mortensorchid Posted February 7, 2010 Author Posted February 7, 2010 Well I decided not to call him and I went out and did things with others. Had an ok time, and I have decided to wait for him to contact me next. I assume since tomorrow (well, today now) is Superbowl Sunday that he will be watching the game. I plan to be out and about, as Superbowl Sunday is a great day to go shopping and out to dinner as there are no lines anywhere. Will update the forum as to what happens next.
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