Wondering?

[stillafool]

Lol...

Must be the biggest skank ever, who only lied to you, so she could thrive off the fact that she managed to seduce a married man.

And you are obviously very gullible.

 

Eitherway I hope for the sake of your wife that she somehow finds out, so she can find someone who treats her better and doesn't cheat. Why the heck do people get married if they can't even stick to simple monogamy.

 

 

This is what I'm thinking! Virgin my arse she's sounds like a slut.

[stillafool]

Eiweniol, obviously you didn't read the whole topic here. I'm not trying to make excuses but nobody is perfect. I just wanted some advise, not to be judged FYI.

 

 

 

You can expect to be judged and to get good advice here on LS. People have varying opinions on subjects.

[Eoweniel]

Eiweniol, obviously you didn't read the whole topic here. I'm not trying to make excuses but nobody is perfect. I just wanted some advise, not to be judged FYI.

 

Thanks for the reply WomaninBlue.

 

Alright, you want my advice? Here it is. Brace yourself.

 

Tell her so she can determine if she wants to try to stay with you and work on it, or move on to someone who won't cheat.

 

As for the judging part, I'm sorry, but being cheated on is undoubtedly one of the worst things that could happen to me, and reading about something like this makes me sick to my stomach.

[Ann_Igma]

Eiweniol, obviously you didn't read the whole topic here. I'm not trying to make excuses but nobody is perfect. I just wanted some advise, not to be judged FYI.

 

Thanks for the reply WomaninBlue.

 

I find it hard to believe that you want advice, as you seem to have: 1) Ignored the advice given to you when you first posted and folled around with her anyway, and then 2) Ignored the advice given to you the SECOND time around and furthered your relationship/fooling around with her.

 

I mean seriously, is it just that you haven't had the advice you want? Are you waiting for some advice like 'reverse cowgirl is a fun position!' or something?

 

You knew from your first post that you shouldn't have got involved, people told you from your first post that you should distance yourself from this girl.. Advice does not seem to be what you want.

 

Having said that, if you REALLY do want advice this time around (), my advice is to come clean to your wife and decide which of the two you want a relationship with, because unless you can convince them both to be in an open relationship with you, it's unfair and hurtful to be lying to one side and keeping both.

[imagine]

I haven't cheated with this chick but we have done almost everything else. Kissing, fondling, spooning (while clothed) She's a virgin and is saving it for marriage.

 

These actions already make the relationship a PA. My guess is that you will never tell your wife? Am I right?

[sugarbritches]

Thanks for the kindhearted advice. I've since broken off things with the other chick and we've agreed to not let it happen again. We never had sex- I'm glad it didn't happen. Hopefully I can fall back in love with my wife and move on.

 

Kissing and spooning is CHEATING!

 

I hope your wife throws your butt to the curb and takes you for every cent you have. Scum dog.

[Rubberducky]

Life is short and I know that doesn't make it right to cheat. My wife has recently expressed to me that she was not happy and mentioned that I only married her because she got pregnant. She's right and she dropped the ball by not properly using her birth control. So here we are stuck with each other. Don't get me wrong, my son is the best thing that's ever happened to me. Still doesn't take away my preference to a tight bodied young lady who's wantin a piece. She was as juicy as a freshwater clam and it still took several firm applications before entrance was gained, I look at it as my father's day gift Yo.

Edited June 22, 2010 by Rubberducky