sean1 Posted February 6, 2010 Posted February 6, 2010 i posted my hole sotry in the second chance section but i fort id brake it down herebasically. im 20 shes 19 and we started our relationship 11months ago. the fing is we both just clicked instantly and we were both our first sexual partners. everything was well we had wekends away and quiet nyts in and nyts out. we booked a holiday in october for this year 2 go abroad 4 2 weeks. now 3 week ago. she suddenly ends it? i fell very ill in november for 2months and lost my job. yet still spent nearly 500 quid at xmas 4 pressies on her as well. and she sed she finished cos she dint feel special? wen i questioned was it about the last few months wen w cunt do nyfing cos i was ill she sed no its from b4 then as well...but then y did she book the holiday in october wif me???? im so confused...she broke up wif me and it wasnt heated or nyfin. just alot of tears. the week 2 follow i did everyfin i cud 2 get her bak...typical emotions 4 u..i practically begged her! she said she never wanted to talk to me and we should both move on. 2 weeks later she text me saying she was being harsh and thet she cudnt stop wanting to talk2 me.i started talking agen then she came out wif the i fink we shud b frends...its less complicated. since then shes sed fings lyk "my hart says give u a chance my hed says no"...and also "i just want 2 say F$%k it lets get back 2gever but i no u wud let me down nd wed both end up hurt." i let her start the conversations and try to be simple as possible but i cant do it..its so hard...but if i say im sorry i cant be ure frend shel just say fyn and tht wil b it cos shes got in that myndset now! i just need to no wher to go from here...y dus she want 2 b frends? her previous 3 exes she has just let go of and never lukd back! shes sed she dusnt want 2 take me back cos shell luk lyk a mug. i found this selfish as she shundt fink about wt others fink! i love this girl so much..i wud give up everyfin i owned 4 her! please please help!!!! my hed is guna explode!!!
GrayClouds Posted February 7, 2010 Posted February 7, 2010 She does not want to be in a relationship but she wants to feel good about her so she is saying lets be friends. It breadcurmbs. I suspect she had her eyes on someone else who may not be as interested in her as she thought and wants you to be the fall back if needed. She is playing games at best and hurtful at worst. You deserve better. Let it go, go strike NC, focus on become a better you. Good luck.
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