Female friend is back

[singlelife]

This girl I was sleeping with is back. We had a hot sexual friendship last year and she was ok that I had other women. It was really good. Well one of my things is communication because I don't like to waste my time. She was supposed to visit one time last summer and no showed and I cussed her out. We then had a heart to hear talk and all I asked was for her to just have told me ahead of time and not just not call. Then about 3 months ago she planed a big week for her to come and see me and she kept calling to say she was sooo excited. Then she no showed. I called her two days ahead of time like I do everybody to make sure she was coming. She never responded and no showed. SO I texted her and told her not to contact me again because I have things to do and erased all her information. I am busy and turned down dated to accomodate her. Well she contacted me two days ago on yahoo and we exchanged numbers and photos. I am not even mad at her it was just a respect thing. She said she was really hurt and that she missed us. SHe was one of my best friends and it was like a gf without all the pressure and we are totally hot for each other. So we talked and cleared some thigs up. She says that she saw me online over the months but was scared to hit me up because of what I told her. I told her well she should have been but I aint mad and that I thought about her over the months. It seems since she is hot that she does that a lot and doesnt think about it. I am the only one who called er on it. SO now we are talkin like we never broke it off. We aint going to gether it's just friends but I am going up to stay a week next week. She is ever hotter than before. So I feel good about it but wanted some opinions

[Leia]

You want an opinion on what exactly? You never had a relationship with to begin with so obviously, there will be no getting back together there but if you're asking if you should get together sexually then go ahead as long as you guys know that it will just be sex and nothing else.

 

Make sure you guys don't get all worked up if one doesn't contact the other in future.

[meerkat stew]

Consider weeding frequent no-shows out of your life entirely, male, female, friends, even family. Whatever you are getting from those types of relationships, even sex, isn't worth the hassle. If you can rid yourself of those types, you will have a happier more stress-free existence.