Sweetie1977 Posted February 6, 2010 Posted February 6, 2010 Its human nature people want to be around and associated with attractive people.it makes us feel good without even knowing it I bring this up becasue of all the posts about people being superfical and this and that but its in our nature,evne babies react more positively to attractive people
PJKino Posted February 6, 2010 Posted February 6, 2010 Its a good looking persons world,i can see the difference in the way women act around me and how they act around really good looking guys and im not talking just sigle women who want to get in the guys pants married women also We put an amazing emhpasis on looks in this society and put these people on a pedestal as if theyre superior human beings
ella23 Posted February 6, 2010 Posted February 6, 2010 There was another thread by MeganDoll on the same topic, I think. We put an amazing emhpasis on looks in this society and put these people on a pedestal as if theyre superior human beings Unfortunately, have to agree with this.
BG1985 Posted February 6, 2010 Posted February 6, 2010 It's always been about looks. The difference overtime has been what is actually considered attractive. A couple hundred years ago, fat women were all the rage. Having really pale skin was attractive since it was representative of nobility.
Satisfaction Posted February 6, 2010 Posted February 6, 2010 Maybe but they also like beautiful surroundings, strange and unusual things, also new experiences. There are loads of things that people like. Relationships are not just the things you like though. Its like a different kind of support network from your family/friends plus intimacy , companionship and reprocity. So to choose a person to do that with just based on looks is not a wise decision. I think people who do that assume that everyone is the same and have a very shallow understanding of their own needs as a person.
conehead Posted February 6, 2010 Posted February 6, 2010 I think people like to be around good looking people (which doesn't always necessarily equate to attractive people btw since good looking people with a bad personality is super unattractive) because they enjoy eye candy. Just like how they like good looking actors in movies.
Johnny M Posted February 6, 2010 Posted February 6, 2010 We put an amazing emhpasis on looks in this society and put these people on a pedestal as if theyre superior human beings As if? Good looking people are superior. They have better genes.
SincereOnlineGuy Posted February 6, 2010 Posted February 6, 2010 Dont humans all subconsciously want to be around attractive people? Of course! ... and it's not always subconscious
Trialbyfire Posted February 6, 2010 Posted February 6, 2010 Perhaps this holds true on initial meet and greet but after awhile, have you ever noticed that you don't notice someone's attraction level? This doesn't necessarily mean that the person is nasty or awful, just that you grow acclimitized to the impact and start to view them in their entirety, rather than just from what you see.
Barky Posted February 6, 2010 Posted February 6, 2010 Perhaps this holds true on initial meet and greet but after awhile, have you ever noticed that you don't notice someone's attraction level? This doesn't necessarily mean that the person is nasty or awful, just that you grow acclimitized to the impact and start to view them in their entirety, rather than just from what you see. I agree with the OP, and I agree with this. Mostly. However, sometimes I'm with a woman I've known for a long time and, if she's very attractive, I'll catch sight of her and will say, "Damn, that woman looks good," almost as if it's the first time looking at her.
Woggle Posted February 6, 2010 Posted February 6, 2010 To a point but a person can quickly become ugly if they are rotten inside.
counterman Posted February 6, 2010 Posted February 6, 2010 Yeah, I think we do want to be around attractive people. But, like what others said, if they have an ugly personality then of course you don't want to be around them. I also agree with TBF. I have noticed that maybe at first I noticed their attractiveness but after a little while I get use to it and it does not remain apparent.
Woggle Posted February 6, 2010 Posted February 6, 2010 I also can't stand when the so called beautiful people act like they are better than everybody else. I have on a few occasions been forced to bring them down to earth.
meerkat stew Posted February 6, 2010 Posted February 6, 2010 You look better when you are with ugly people.
MissJoness Posted February 6, 2010 Posted February 6, 2010 To a point but a person can quickly become ugly if they are rotten inside. I disagree. sometimes the most attractive people can be the most self centered and have the nastiest personalities because they are allowed to a freepass because of their looks. especially women
TheLoneSock Posted February 7, 2010 Posted February 7, 2010 Its human nature people want to be around and associated with attractive people.it makes us feel good without even knowing it I bring this up becasue of all the posts about people being superfical and this and that but its in our nature,evne babies react more positively to attractive people Attractiveness is mainly attributed to over all health. Both genetic health and homeostasis health. Health is strength and survivability. So it would make sense for young ones to be drawn to and react better to attractive people, as they would make better protectors. It's all in the subconscious instincts and genes.
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