mortensorchid Posted February 5, 2010 Posted February 5, 2010 Well I heard from him today, the man I'd had 3 awesome dates with in the last few weeks. (The one with the Manchu Picchu texts that I had written about.) He left a voice mail message tonight saying that he has family and Superbowl things to do this weekend, so we are not going to see each other. I feel secure in that he's telling me the truth on this, as we are not at the point where we are going to introduce each other to friends and family yet. But my question is - when? I am ready, I think, for him to meet my friends if he wishes. I have a party coming up on the 20th. This is a costume party, the big bash of the year, a fund raiser. This is a costume party with high costume expectations. Expect things to be rowdy. Is this too intense to invite him to? I'm trying to play it as safe as possible. I am artsy and love to party a lot, he describes himself as being "vanilla but not plain". I worry that this might be a little too intense for him, but he seems to understand my sense of humor and things. We have had similar past experiences according to his stories, seeing the good and bad sides of life.
DiscoChick Posted February 5, 2010 Posted February 5, 2010 He'll ask to meet them when he's ready or you offer. Honestly, if you don't think he is ready yet, why bother? Wait for a later function, unless you'd just like some eye candy at your party.
meerkat stew Posted February 5, 2010 Posted February 5, 2010 Definitely ask him, will be a good opportunity to see how compatible you are. Sounds like a blast and since everyone will be in costume, it will be a low pressure way for him to meet your friends.
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