MissJane Posted February 4, 2010 Posted February 4, 2010 If your BF cheats on you more than once would you carry on the relationship or just end it. Would you even listen to the reasons why he cheated and if he said it was because of his self esteem being low, is this good enough?
rand0m Posted February 4, 2010 Posted February 4, 2010 If someone has cheated on you, they don't respect you or the relationship. I don't care what the reason is, cheating is inexcusable in my books. If you take this person back, what's that saying about you as a person? You're willing to get walked over? What's stopping them from doing it again if they know they can come back full of sorrow and still have you in the relationship? You deserve better than that. Everyone deserves to be loved unconditionally and faithfully.
Perhaps Posted February 4, 2010 Posted February 4, 2010 I think everyone deserves a second chance but I'd be VERY iffy if I was cheated on 'cause I'd just lose trust. But if your b/f cheats, especially more than once, that's enough reason to move on.
Catseye8 Posted February 4, 2010 Posted February 4, 2010 I'd end it. But that doesn't mean you have to, of course. But, there's this to think of: Would you even listen to the reasons why he cheated and if he said it was because of his self esteem being low, is this good enough? I think the important question is, is it good enough to reassure you that he wouldn't cheat again? I'm guessing if he had low self-esteem at the time, he's still got low self-esteem now, right? Choosing to forgive him for cheating is up to you, but choosing to forgive him for cheating if the chances are good he'll do it again is pretty much a recipe for pain, I feel.
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