Puppydag Posted February 4, 2010 Posted February 4, 2010 Hi everyone. Still thinking. Should a guy send his ex a letter, explaining all your feeling and wish them the best of luck or would that make you look weak again and give them control?? *+*+**++ woman makes life hard but the thing is would this be better than just walking away? Would it be best to take them of F,book and all the rest. ?? Help before i make a mistake? Ps she left me, over something my mother said! Wich i can understand upset her. But **** if she really loved me woulnt she have rather came to me and said, **** your mother's a bitch!! But i love you?!! As i said to her before she poped me a email saying no thanks to the relationship.? Them 3 wks later she wrote a long email saying sorry and that she really loved me. But by then was really pissed and gave her a mouth full... Then NC for long, returned goods, had breakup sex. She wanted to see mee again, but later did not hear a thing. Like she never said this. This left me quite sad and confused! Also just left it. But still feel as there was so much unsaid@! Write a letter OR walk away!!?? **** i am almost 30! Should be more street wise by now.. Help me get perspective please...
Ashkayi Posted February 4, 2010 Posted February 4, 2010 Im not really sure what to say here.. Your mother must have said something to her pretty bad to spark such a fast and awkward break up. If you feel strongly about writing her a letter than do it, and express your feelings and concerns. If she wants to come back, then awesome, and express to her your concerns about your mom and what happened there. Good luck.
Golden-73 Posted February 4, 2010 Posted February 4, 2010 If you love her don't walk away. I am struggling right now over my ex. It took me 17 months to finally get her, then we dated for 2 years. Now she is taking her "space" are we are in LC In the past I have sent messages to two girls I really cared about. the first girl we broke up in 1999. I sent her a long letter, asking her to quit giving me mixed signals, and if I am not in your heart move on. I did not get a responce. Amazingly on the 4th of july of 2006, almost 7 years she appeared at my doorstep. I did not know what to think. I was dating someone at the time, and told her I am surprised to see you, but to much time has passed. The second one this was in 2004 I sent a Valentines Day card too. 3 weeks later she called me and wanted to talk, so I said ok, she said no I want to talk in person. I was happy about this. She wanted to talk right away. I told her to come over in about 5 hours when I am done with everything, and talk. We ended up dating for another 2 years after this. Write it, and then sit on it for a few days, and make any corrections. Then send it you have nothing to lose! Hopefully you can gain the one you love from it.
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