mmk1 Posted February 4, 2010 Posted February 4, 2010 (edited) Last November, I went to a pro football with a girl in my industry that I had met at a business convention. We have a great time at the game, which was weeks after I met her, and at the end of the night she reached over and kissed me when I drove her home, which was great. The next week, I got a little carried away and asked her out to 2 more games or maybe for drinks, which was too much too soon. She said she was busy those dates but said maybe this summer she'd take me to a baseball game with her company tickets but didn't suggest anything in the interim. I figured I blew it, left her alone but did send a business X-Mas card. I did not hear back from her, as I expected, but ran into her 2 weeks ago at another industry function. I went over and she hugged me when I went up to her. I did not expect her to kiss me again in front of her boss and my collegues. She said she emailed me in December but I did not get it. We talked for 1-2 minutes and I moved on and I left early from the event. She was clearly checking me out and I felt she was still hip to my trip, despite the time passage. Before I got home, she texted me asking again about going to 1-2 baseball games with her. I said yes and would she like to get together sooner to catch up after work. She agreed immediately and we have a date picked next week after work next evening. I feel she is still into me. Long story, but do I greet her with a kiss again when we get together, as I consider this a date? Should I not consider this a date? Does it matter whether we meet or I pick her up at home as to how I greet her? Haven't dated in a while so thank you! Edited February 4, 2010 by mmk1 Typo!
counterman Posted February 4, 2010 Posted February 4, 2010 I think she is interested in you and I, personally, would consider this a date. I would prefer picking her up. When you meet her, I suggest giving her a hug. Not too short, not too long. Smile, give her a hug and say compliment what she is wearing or something. Then, seeing how the date goes, go for the kiss at the end of it. Have fun!
Author mmk1 Posted February 4, 2010 Author Posted February 4, 2010 Thank you! I am usually for playing it by ear but the last time we were alone we ended with her kissing me and I wondered if I went to a hug that would be sending the signal that I thought this was a friends thing rather than a date.
counterman Posted February 4, 2010 Posted February 4, 2010 Well, you have to feel it out. Whatever feels most natural to you. Personally, I would give her a hug first and throughout the night just have fun. She will know I am interested from the way I am around her and by waiting to finish it off with a kiss, it just leaves a bit of tension, something to look forward to after the date is finished and we've both enjoyed ourselves; ending it on a high. Remember, she did kiss you at the end. I reckon she will be expecting it at the end of your date. I think maybe a kiss on the cheek will do (if you wanted to kiss first), but that's just me. Nothing too strong of course. Go with how you feel and see how he reacts to seeing you! Whatever you do, don't hesitate and just go for it. Don't look too much into it or else it will seemed planned!
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