e.clipse Posted February 4, 2010 Posted February 4, 2010 for the back story: http://www.loveshack.org/forums/showthread.php?t=219365 (i don't know how to do that cool hyperlink thing, sorry.) SO! after being totally weirded out by him, things have suddenly changed... the day following our first "date," the guy called me several times (in the evening), and sent me some texts wherein he seemed genuinely concerned. after having one too many double whiskeys, i picked up the phone and called him back. we talked for a good while, and he apologized profusely. i don't know if i was just too tipsy, but he seemed genuinely sorry for "scaring" me off. we talked some more and we agreed to move past the incident and try to hang out again. i saw him this past Monday. he came down to where i live and we met at a coffee shop and had a very nice conversation about nothing in particular. you know--one of those conversations where you just talk and talk about nothing. it was pretty cool. after, we went to a park where he started to play some music for me. OH MY GOD. he is pretty ****ing good, and his voice...man, he just looked so hot and dreamy. of course, i made out with him. this time, though, he wasn't "out of line," and didn't say anything crass, like he did last time. when that was all well and done, we parted ways. on my way back, i was seriously wondering what the bloody hell i was doing, but, in a way, it didn't matter. i liked it. it felt good, especially because it was not pp (exbf). however, i figured he was going to peg me as some kind of tramp and not talk to me again, which i had resigned to. but i was wrong. well, so far, i think. he called me later that night and we have totally been talking everyday for hours on end (still about nothing). today, he came down here again and we went to dinner. it was cool. after, we went bowling. that was way fun. oh, and then i totally slept with him. i know he doesn't want a relationship, though, so i don't know what the hell i am doing. it's just that he is so hot. and omg, he was, uh, very good. the way he plays his guitar...it's so mesmerizing. so much, even, that i want to be his guitar. after we did what we did, i told him straight out that i was confused. he said that it was OK--that we didn't have to do that again, if i didn't want to, and that we'd still be friends because he "enjoyed my company." you know, typical bull****. who knows? he probably won't call me ever again. sigh. oh well, i guess. i'm always saying on here how i feel all inadequate for only having been with 1 guy in my 23 years, but now...i can say 2. i'm not sure if that is a good thing, though. probably not. but man, he is SO sexy. train-wreck, anyone?
meerkat stew Posted February 4, 2010 Posted February 4, 2010 train-wreck, anyone? Not a train-wreck at all, sounds like you had some enjoyable experiences, not everything turns into lifelong romance, but don't automatically think he won't call. In the future, though, if you want a relationship, hold off on sex a bit longer. We like to work a bit. Hope you cut and paste this post to your other thread for all the folks who were calling this guy a creepy pervert.
Ariadne Posted February 4, 2010 Posted February 4, 2010 the way he plays his guitar...it's so mesmerizing. so much, even, that i want to be his guitar. Hey, Well, good luck with this guy. At least someone else caught your interest at least for a while. See what happens now. Hugs.
burning 4 revenge Posted February 4, 2010 Posted February 4, 2010 Whoa E.Clipse this is good news I just hope you tread lightly though as I know you can be quite emotionally intense. Thats certainly no criticism as I think that's your best quality, but we know how that sword has a double-edge Does he say a relationship is out of the question? Or does he just want to take things at a leisurely pace? I am glad you have some other reference point than PP now, maybe this will finally give you some closure after all these years and give you a little confidence going forward
Citizen Erased Posted February 4, 2010 Posted February 4, 2010 Woo e.clipse got some! :bunny: I'm jealous. Just be careful sweetie, he said he doesn't want a relationship and it would be bad if you attached yourself to him anyway...
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