j444 Posted February 3, 2010 Posted February 3, 2010 My girlfriend of over 1 1/2 years broke up with me. She says it is very hard on her, and she does not want this. I told her it is not what I want either. So why are we doing this? She keeps on texting me old memories, love songs, dreams she had about me. She calls me from a few times a week. She is 30 still lives at home, and tells me that her family does thinks she should move on, but she does not want to. I told her to act like an adult, get out of your house, rent your 1st apartment, and make your own life. I am going to start NC, or LC beacuse this is starting to become to hard for me, and I think for her too. I don't understand why 2 people who want to be together, continue to do this. Any ideas?
malc Posted February 3, 2010 Posted February 3, 2010 I hate hearing stories like this, the feeling here is mutual, the decision making is both ways, if you want her, and she wants you, get up and do something about it, show her the kind of guy you are and what you will do for the future, your not with her parents, brothers, sisters, aunts or cousins, your with her, go and see her, and break it down to her there and then, and tell her to grow up, and make her decision or she will lose you entirely, and if she still cant make her mind up, then move on, go NC. I think on this board, like my story, many people on here from my knowledge are the dumpee, and the feeling is not mutual between both parties, and there is a great feeling of helplessness, but you are in a great place to save it if you want to.
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