Ashkayi Posted February 4, 2010 Posted February 4, 2010 The best thing for anyone is to not sleep with a person until you know them, know how they are in different circumstances, know how they treat their women, know how they feel about life in general. There is no sense in jumping in the sack with anyone until you know them enough to trust them and feel comfortable with them. If a man left his ex because she was preggers, you should find out why before judging them. Some men date women who trap them, get preggers on purpose and they leave. I think its best to leave a horrible situation that could be bad for the child if the two stuck together than live a life with someone who makes you miserable, ive seen too many men do it and it just made the relationship worse. People lack so many morals and standards these days and just jump in bed with the best looking thing they find and they arent ready for the consequences.. Also, ((if a man wants to sleep with you bad enough they know exactly what answers to give you to make you think they arent a certain way))
DiscoChick Posted February 5, 2010 Posted February 5, 2010 This is interesting because I got into a small argument with a man over this. He asked if I liked children. I told him no, and I don't date men with children. I could tell I'd hit a nerve from the way his expression changed. I told him I don't like children that are not in my family or my own [i have no children], and I don't want to deal with anyone else's kids. He got really upset and called me snobby. Supposedly, he could have been the best thing that happened to me. He said, "You don't know nothing about me or my daughter." Yes, he should have paid more attention in grammar class. I told him I had no intentions of learning about either of them. Really, even if I had been interested in him, he had a temper that I did not find attractive. I would never date a guy with children. I tell men this when they first ask for my number.
Art_Critic Posted February 5, 2010 Posted February 5, 2010 Both parties need to be ready to be parents if they are having sex.. Slipping one past the goalie is all too easy when having sex, afterall it happens every single day in real life. That being said.. there is no way in the world to know what guy will leave and what guy will stay in the out of wedlock scenario.. Google the facebook sperminator... http://www.thaindian.com/newsportal/world-news/facebooks-sperminator-gets-girls-pregnant-in-few-clicks_100271590.html That guy is so screwed...
Citizen Erased Posted February 5, 2010 Posted February 5, 2010 I can't say I'd be as willing to get involved with someone if I discovered they had children. I suppose it can be seen as hypocritical as things happen and it could happen to me and I don't see abortion as an option myself. But at my age, I don't want to be involved with the drama that comes from step kids and the ex in the picture all the time. Too much.
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