bbrooke Posted February 3, 2010 Posted February 3, 2010 So it's been almost 4 weeks since i got the "I don't love you anymor.e" bomb dropped on me without any notice. it was very sudden and I was blindsided. Sunday was a normal day, we took our kids out for some bowling, Monday was a weird day and i kinda felt it that day, then Tuesday am we had the talk, over the phone. He was cold and i felt like I didn't even know him anymore. We were just shy of one year together. We were extremely close, we were Best Friends. We spent all our free time together, without kids. I know like a lot of you here, we had the best relationship, we never fought, we laughed all the time. It was perfect, to me anyway. So this is what I just can't get over, and I need to to get over this slump i'm having. How can someone go from completely crazy in love to I don't even like you or care enough about you to even check in. I mean, we are human beings. At some point in our relationship he cared and loved me, so how come all the sudden he just doesn't care at all. I never saw any signs of this strange behavior. Nothing sparked this break up , we never fought. I was and still am, head over heels in love with him. I need to also mention that there is this possibility that he went back to his ex-wife, however, this isn't confirmed, it's just a gut feeling I have. he told me everyday, all day, that he loved me... until that Tuesday. I had no indication of him not loving me, because he told me he did. i'm in shock that after everything we've been through this past year, everything that i've done for him and his kids, that he doesn't even have the decency to check on me. so sad again today.
emjay22 Posted February 3, 2010 Posted February 3, 2010 aw well that's definitely not easy to deal with. don't dwell on everything you did & everything that feels "lost". It's so cliche, but it happened for a reason. At least he had the decency to talk & be straight with you about it, rather than dragging a relationship out that he wasn't that into (for whatever reason?). guys don't make sense! good luck (sorry I'm not more help).
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