TommyT2 Posted February 3, 2010 Posted February 3, 2010 Hi, I have a female housemate that I have always gotten on with very well. Basically (predictably?) I have developed feeling's for this girl, which is of course a frustration for me given we live together, and I can't exactly keep my distance (and moving out is not an option for a while yet). Anyhow, we were out recently and I started acting like a jealous idiot when she started chatting with some blokes. Where i'm now confused was in how she reacted to this. She basically started hugging and kissing me a lot. No snogging, nothing on the mouth, but forehead, cheeks, and long drawn out cuddles. Now this isn't the first time she's behaved like this, we've had the odd kiss/hug before, but this was pretty much from that point progressing through the night. Now, I don't really get these vibes from here in between these occasional nights. Is this just friendly affection or should I have done something? I doubt she behaves that way with her female friends. If it's nothing then i'm cool with that, i can carry on as i have been and just deal with it. But I suppose I just want to try and understand what that was all about. Maybe something, maybe nothing? I'd really appreciate your thoughts/advice, thanks. Tom
Simon Attwood Posted February 3, 2010 Posted February 3, 2010 She basically started hugging and kissing me a lot. No snogging, nothing on the mouth, but forehead, cheeks, and long drawn out cuddles. why not, next time, summon up all your courage and kiss her back
Author TommyT2 Posted February 3, 2010 Author Posted February 3, 2010 Yeah, i should have done really. But given the circumstances a rejection would be really embarrising to say the least. I suppose I'm just trying to hedge my bets and get some idea as to whether that was actually significant or whether it was just an affectionate gesture. I should probably point out that we were both drunk
Simon Attwood Posted February 3, 2010 Posted February 3, 2010 Yeah, i should have done really. But given the circumstances a rejection would be really embarrising to say the least. I suppose I'm just trying to hedge my bets and get some idea as to whether that was actually significant or whether it was just an affectionate gesture. I should probably point out that we were both drunk Hmmm, perhaps she could carve her intentions upon a stone tablet, similar to the ones Moses brought down from the mount.
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