Keep talking to her? or Wait for something?

[yessir1]

hello, as my first post ill try to make this as short as possible haha just bear with me.

 

but anyways ive been "talking" to this girl kinda on and off since like november.

we were always friends and we even used to talk alot when we were like in 8th grade.. then in 9th we didnt so i said w.e but in the summer we got into a big fight that really f'd things up so i just ignored her.

 

it took about 3 months into my 10th grade til i started noticing she was getting interested again.. looking at me in class , said hi a few times etc. so i wanted to see whatsup so i messaged her on myspace asking about hw (she had my 1st period) and she seemed not mad at me. so a few weeks go by and i say talk to her on thanksgiving and i could tell she was interested!! we talked on myspace until about 4 am just like how we first did and we were both really into it. so 2 days later she talks to me again (myspace ) and she still seemd interested so i was like ok cool.

 

didnt talk until like christmas break when i messaged her being boring on purpose seeing what she would do and after about 8 or 9 msgs she didnt reply back which was ok i expected it haha.

 

then i talked to her again a week later and the messages went back and forth for about 2 days then the same thing happened when i guess it got uninteresting for her so ok w.e.

 

now its been like 3 or 4 weeks since xmas break and i talked to her on myspace and the messages went back and forth for about a week until she didnt reply.. atleast i think she didnt because its been about 2days. but i could tell when she gets un interested but everytime i talked to her she still seemed to be really interested in me at the start i mean all we really do is small talk. but i cant really blame her for not replying because she uses myspace mobile on her bros phone cus theres no internet at her house so i guess its to much effort haha especially when shes bored.

 

shes said hi like once or twice in person but i never really see her so. (she got switched out of my 1st period about 2 weeks ago)

 

i dont know theres a few more things but its getting long already so.. i hope you get my point that we talk, shes interested, then after a lil while she doesnt reply back. then i feel like i messed "up" between us. OH and ive never said anything about it to her.

 

SOOO my question if she doesnt reply to my message should i see if shell message me later on like in the future like if she wants to talk to me she will?? or ina few more weeks just say whatsup again. but it doesnt really seem like im going anywhere.

Edited February 3, 2010 by yessir1

[boogieboy]

You didnt do anything wrong, Shes not interested enough to keep it going, so stop talking to her. Shes just jerking you around. Dont give her anymore attention, she isnt trying hard enough to justify worrying about her.