Lucky555 Posted February 3, 2010 Posted February 3, 2010 So I finally told him what i wanted: I said I want exclusivity. And HE AGREED! So I now have a boyfriend. BUT i want more. For now just being with him is good. When is it time for him to introduce me to his family? I want to be apart of his life. I found out why he "hurried" me to leave when i was at his place. He had to go into work. I totally understand and i believe him because i know what he does BUT why didn't he just tell me he had to go to work instead of just making me feel like i had to get out! Lately he has been contacting me everyday. So where do i go from here? Is there a time frame of when it becomes more serious? I am thinking ahead here but i want this to be going forward...it seems like its going so slow. Its been a month. Any thoughts?
alphamale Posted February 3, 2010 Posted February 3, 2010 Any thoughts? you're exclusive after 4 weeks? this is a train wreck waiting to happen
skydiveaddict Posted February 3, 2010 Posted February 3, 2010 just go with it concentrate on having fun with him. The relatioship grow naturally
txsilkysmoothe Posted February 3, 2010 Posted February 3, 2010 I'm very happy for you. Don't mess this up by pushing for too much too soon. Enjoy the moment - you said "for now, just being with him is good." You need to be satisfied with that for atleast a couple of months, probably longer. After all, you already have the majority of what you wanted, right? Don't push "meeting the family." There are so many reasons he may not want to do that, reasons that have nothing to do with you. Just be........................
skydiveaddict Posted February 3, 2010 Posted February 3, 2010 Bad advice meet the famly now what's so important about that?
Barky Posted February 3, 2010 Posted February 3, 2010 you're exclusive after 4 weeks? this is a train wreck waiting to happen They're like 15 years old man. After he gives her the Promise Ring and they're "going steady" she'll get bored and it'll be all over.
SoulSearch_CO Posted February 3, 2010 Posted February 3, 2010 you're exclusive after 4 weeks? this is a train wreck waiting to happen They're like 15 years old man. After he gives her the Promise Ring and they're "going steady" she'll get bored and it'll be all over. And again: Anywho: Lucky, "more serious" than WHAT? You're already bf/gf. Next step beyond that is engagement. Seeing as how 1 month is waaaaaaaaaaaay early for that, you'd have to define for me what you mean by "more serious."
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