rossgeller Posted February 2, 2010 Posted February 2, 2010 I met her 3 years ago. we met over internet. we met we fell in love, i was 39 she was 32. from the first time i saw her, i liked her, she is hot, she has a style and a way that was familiar to me. she behaved like a little girl in terms of intimacy in the first time. she was pushing me away whent i tried to kiss her and reach her but this was for a short time. then everything was really good! but soon we started fight over almost nothing. but she wanted to be my life epicenter,my priority should be her needs her likes her everything. this made me angry. i am willing to care about my beloved one she doesn't have to point it out that i should. some weeks after i went out with a girl. i was feeling angry that my girlfriend was treating me with criticism and that madem efeel less man. tha other girl was loughing at my jokes, she was really different. but after the forst date i felt like an idiot. i didnt want to lose my girlfriend. so i stopped communicating with the other girl. my gf found this out 6 months after. she felt bad and sad. we talked this through and everything seemed to be ok. she worked out of athens(greece) and i used to visit her every weekend. for 1 and almost a half year she worked outside of athens. we used to fight alot cause she was insecure with me being alone in athens. i used to visit my friends and sometime go out but she didn't like this. when she got back to athens things were not better. i was breaking up with her because i couldn't live with her being so jealous quarelling about everything. she felt neglected, she was pushy to have sex, she made arguments about everything. last summer after a breakup i decided to aske her to marry me. i thought this was the reason for being in tension all time. we got married. last lovember. 15 days earlier she told me she was pregnant. i thought she was still taking the pill but she stopped it. i was angry because she didn't say anything.since then i was feeling bad for her pregnancy from time to time. she wasn't working an di had to pay for everything. and i wasn't feeling secure financial speaking. i was feeling anxious for most of the time. last time i told her, she started crying and when i said i was sorry i said such things she became very angry and for 2 days she was yelling at me that i am really a bad person and i will be responsible for problems during her pregnancy. i felt that i couldn't live with her anymore. i told i want to get out from this marriage. my lawyer sent her a paper explaining my thoughts and my feelings and why i left this marriage. 22 days after she sent me a Nonjudicial Notice of Default saying that when she read mine she had a miscarriage and i am responsible for this. she said she will file me a lawsuit about this.... i felt devastated about the baby loss and what she experienced.i don't believe about miscarriage, i think she went for an abortion. But i really miss her. it is 45 days since i last saw her....
conductor Posted March 19, 2010 Posted March 19, 2010 My heart goes out to you. I am in more or less the same situation. All we can do is weather the storm and hope that time heals. I was blamed for my ex having a miscarriage even though it was caused by a medical condition to her uterus!! The problem is that we can never know about the ending of a pregnancy due to abortion or miscarraige if we are not there and if they will not tell us.
dreamingoftigers Posted March 19, 2010 Posted March 19, 2010 It really really sounds like she manipulated you BIG TIME. Dont' spend too much time mourning this one.
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