Author Ivan Posted February 3, 2010 Author Posted February 3, 2010 (edited) this isn't the first violent outburst you've seen is it? Physically yes but she has been verbal on several occasions while intoxicated. However, I assumed it wouldn't proceed to what just happened today. About locking her, it was only the car keys I had juggling on my hand. I was only doing it in a playful way but was going to give it to her. I still felt this no way guaranteed a hard punch in the face enough to leave a red mark. Edited February 3, 2010 by Ivan
WalkInThePark Posted February 3, 2010 Posted February 3, 2010 I just wanted her back to her same self. She hasn't been organized, nor helping out at home, coming drunk many times at 1am and sometimes denying intimacy. It seems like all she cares is drinking with friends and cleaning her car. Well, her behaviour is certainly not OK but you won't change this by taking away her keys. Have a heart-to-heart talk with her and ask her to see a councellor. Maybe she is afraid to get married. The fact that your parents don't like her will not be pleasant for her.
WalkInThePark Posted February 3, 2010 Posted February 3, 2010 Physically yes but she has been verbal on several occasions while intoxicated. However, I assumed it wouldn't proceed to what just happened today. About locking her, it was only the car keys I had juggling on my hand. I was only doing it in a playful way but was going to give it to her. I still felt this no way guaranteed a hard punch in the face enough to leave a red mark. Don't fool yourself: you were out of line by taking her car keys. This was not funny. It seems to me she has a problem with alcohol. She should seek help but you as well I think.
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