Nurs123 Posted February 2, 2010 Posted February 2, 2010 Well.. It all started a few months ago when I met this guy at the bar at first I wasn't even attracted to him cause he was short ( well same height as me 5'4) and Asian and I had never been attracted to Asian guys. But he offered to buy me a drink I was like oh well free drink why not so he did, then I just left him and walked off after thanking him. He was so nice didn't try to grab me like a typical guy or anything didn't even ask my name. I was kinda surprised but I went to dance didn't pay attention until he came up to me an hour later and asked if he could dance with me. So we dance but I really wasn't interested in him until I found out he was a cop. When he told me he was a police officer omg my whole vision of him just changed. Suddenly he was sexy I wanted him. I started to date him for about a month without having sex with him and he was so respectful which made me fall for him so fast and so bad . So after a month I decided it was time to have sex with him....... So he got naked and my heart was shattered ..... His penis was so so small that my dogs penis seemed bigger. I couldn't have sex with him. I broke up with the man of my dreams the next day . Unfortunalty I told him why and he hates me now. I want him back so bad cause it's been months and I'm still deeply in love with him but he hates me he won't even talk to me now he even changed his phone number cause of me apologizing to him so many times. I don't know what to do. I really love him I don't care about the size of his penis anymore I just want him . I made a mistake and I want him to know that. I tried dating other guys but it's not the same cause I compare them all to him. And since being with him I only want a guy who's a cop and has his characteristics which is so hard to find please give me advice... This guy has made my life hell I can't seem to find happiness without him and he can't seem to forgive me for saying that his penis is smaller then my dogs penis
SoulSearch_CO Posted February 2, 2010 Posted February 2, 2010 You can't be serious that you told some guy that his penis was smaller than your dog's. o_o For reference's sake - what kind of dog do you have?
counterman Posted February 2, 2010 Posted February 2, 2010 Yeah, that would definitely scar him. I really don't want to imagine what it would have been like for you or for him for that matter. I don't even want to think what kind of dog you have! But yeah, you have apologised. He probably won't forgive you but you were honest. Nothing else really you can do.
creyente7 Posted February 2, 2010 Posted February 2, 2010 haha, this made me laugh, im asian with a 5inch dick and im 6'1, id say its average, but not for my height... and thats the worst insult you could ever tell a man, insult him bout his weight, looks, hair, clothes, smell... just not a mans dick =) and if he saw you walking your dog and your dog is a chihuahua then thats just sad...
Sprig Posted February 2, 2010 Posted February 2, 2010 It's too late the damage is done, insulting a man in that way is the lowest of low. Not really sure if you can relate, but how would you feel if when you got undressed and a guy said to you, you're too fat to have sex with and laughed at you and broke up with you the next day. Would you really want to go running to this guy? Why would he want to go back with someone who insulted him so, he probably has found someone and they are quite happy together. He wants nothing else to do with you, best try to forget him and move on.
Author Nurs123 Posted February 3, 2010 Author Posted February 3, 2010 I have tried to forget about him and move on like I said .. I tried dating other guys but I can't stop loving him. I know what I said to him was wrong I wish I could take it back.
You'reasian Posted February 3, 2010 Posted February 3, 2010 haha, this made me laugh, im asian with a 5inch dick and im 6'1, id say its average, but not for my height... and thats the worst insult you could ever tell a man, insult him bout his weight, looks, hair, clothes, smell... just not a mans dick =) and if he saw you walking your dog and your dog is a chihuahua then thats just sad... I'm asian and I think I might be an inch longer downstairs than you and a little more than an inch shorter in height. but the point is that men's wang size sometimes correlates to their body type. There are exceptions to this. sometimes race, genetics etc. generally speaking bigger dudes will have bigger wangs, smaller dudes will have smaller wangs - but this is not a hard, fast rule.
Art_Critic Posted February 3, 2010 Posted February 3, 2010 this is not a hard' date=' fast[/b'] rule. ........
You'reasian Posted February 3, 2010 Posted February 3, 2010 I have tried to forget about him and move on like I said .. I tried dating other guys but I can't stop loving him. I know what I said to him was wrong I wish I could take it back. It sounds like you really love this guy. Call him up. Tell him that he's the one for you. See how he takes it and keep it conversational but re-assuring. Good luck!
You'reasian Posted February 3, 2010 Posted February 3, 2010 ........ We Asian guys can be funny, huh - sad part is that I wasn't trying
clueless haha Posted February 3, 2010 Posted February 3, 2010 LOL @ the OP nice going... ..you could try getting arrested and then maybe you'll see him at the station (ask to speak to him ) but you would have to be pretty crazy for him to do that
Author Nurs123 Posted February 3, 2010 Author Posted February 3, 2010 The funny thing is that I actually thinking of getting arrested just to see him but I'm a nurse and being a nurse I can't have a criminal record so I can't . It's sad that he does work at the police station by my house and every day I see a police car I hope I get pulled over by him so I drive fast just to get pulled over but it's never him. I got many tickets sadly and I know almost everyone at the police station now going there to talk about the tickets lol. They all know me now. And I can't call him cause he changed his number. I miss him so much I feel this terrible pressure in my chest everytime I think about him. Everytime I see a cop car my heart starts to rush I can't breath cause I think he might be in that car. It's been since aug that I last talked to him or saw him but I still love him so much. It makes me wonder if I will ever get over him... Was he my true love? Did I **** up my true love with my own two hands? **** me....!!!
Normalguy Posted February 3, 2010 Posted February 3, 2010 First of all you're what they call a badge bunny. Second of all, I absolutely hate cops. So bravo for crushing ones ego. IMO you should just try to get over it and never EVER date a cop again. Cops are horrible people, worse than gang members.
skydiveaddict Posted February 3, 2010 Posted February 3, 2010 First of all you're what they call a badge bunny. Second of all, I absolutely hate cops. So bravo for crushing ones ego. IMO you should just try to get over it and never EVER date a cop again. Cops are horrible people, worse than gang members. I'm not real fond of cops either. They keep arresting me for no good reason. lol! Besides, I bet they ALL have small d..ks
Author Nurs123 Posted February 3, 2010 Author Posted February 3, 2010 Some cops are corropt but not him... His job was his life... And I know cops are *******s but there are some really good ones... He is an amazing officer... I wish they were all like him... And I just love cops I can't help it after him if I ever date anyone else I would only date a cop ... It's the sexy cop car and the sexy uniform with the gun and all that power it just turns me on I can't help it. When me and him were dating he took me for a date on his break when he was wearing his uniform it was the sexiest thing in the world. Everyone in the restuarant was looking at us. So sexy I want that again .
skydiveaddict Posted February 3, 2010 Posted February 3, 2010 I think there's a troll somewhere nearby
Normalguy Posted February 3, 2010 Posted February 3, 2010 Some cops are corropt but not him... His job was his life... And I know cops are *******s but there are some really good ones... He is an amazing officer... I wish they were all like him... And I just love cops I can't help it after him if I ever date anyone else I would only date a cop ... It's the sexy cop car and the sexy uniform with the gun and all that power it just turns me on I can't help it. When me and him were dating he took me for a date on his break when he was wearing his uniform it was the sexiest thing in the world. Everyone in the restuarant was looking at us. So sexy I want that again . The things that make you like cops are also qualities of military men. Date a ****ing marine. Marine has a bigger gun (Fully automatic rifles, machine guns, ROCKET LAUNCHERS , more power(decides who lives and who dies), a better vehicle (a HUMMV, a tank, possibly even a apache or a fighter jet), better uniform (it's ****ing camo), and people will also respect him more (what's more respectable, harassing innocent people for driving there car too fast or RISKING YOUR ****ING LIFE TO PROTECT THE COUNTRY). Please for the love of god don't give a pig a reason to feel good about himself.
CLC2008 Posted February 3, 2010 Posted February 3, 2010 The things that make you like cops are also qualities of military men. Date a ****ing marine. Marine has a bigger gun (Fully automatic rifles, machine guns, ROCKET LAUNCHERS , more power(decides who lives and who dies), a better vehicle (a HUMMV, a tank, possibly even a apache or a fighter jet), better uniform (it's ****ing camo), and people will also respect him more (what's more respectable, harassing innocent people for driving there car too fast or RISKING YOUR ****ING LIFE TO PROTECT THE COUNTRY). Please for the love of god don't give a pig a reason to feel good about himself. How can you call someone who puts their life on the line, a pig? What an ignorant statement to make. I dated a cop, I have friends who are cops/detectives, and most of them are pretty good guys. There are some that aren't, but I know plenty of non-law individuals who aren't good people either.
Normalguy Posted February 3, 2010 Posted February 3, 2010 How can you call someone who puts their life on the line, a pig? What an ignorant statement to make. I dated a cop, I have friends who are cops/detectives, and most of them are pretty good guys. There are some that aren't, but I know plenty of non-law individuals who aren't good people either. I grew up in Clearwater, I know what real cops are about. I'm guessing you live in some suburban ass area where you don't see a single black person. Almost every time you call the cops on someone here they will try to come up with a reason to arrest you instead. For instance my dad called the cops beceause people were breaking into an abandoned movie theatre and the cops found graffiti of peoples names and they questioned him about his sons name. Cops will lie to make arrests, more arrests means quicker promotion for cops. I once had a cop lie on my police report when I was 16 and without his lie the case would have held no water and I would have been let off. A cop pulled a gun on me when I was 16 for stealing a soda. WTF who pulls a gun on an unarmed kid that stole a 67c bottle of soda. Ever heard of cops beating people to death while they're handcuffed? Happens all the time. Had a friend who was a cop for 6 months and left after he found out how corrupt the ENTIRE police station was. There were a group of cops he was working with that would rob stores and then set the silent alarm off. When the silent alarm went off they were the first on the scene and it became their case. At that point they would screw with evidence in order to not get caught. My point being, your cop in BFE kansas that everyone knows as THE sheriff, who spends most of his time harassing speeders with out of state liscense plates beceause he doesn't wanna pull over one of his drinking buddies might not be such a bad guy. When you're talking city cops, all scum.
Author Nurs123 Posted February 3, 2010 Author Posted February 3, 2010 ok guys this is about my love life not about how bad cops are. its everyones opionion. there are bad cops and good cops just like every other career. there are good nurses and bad ones there are good doctors and bad ones good electricans and bad ones you shouldnt judge all of them. and i hate militiry guys causse they are murderers they kill inocent people by bombing them. they have no heart they are trained by the government to kill to protect and i think thats wrong because they have no idea who they are killing and why really but they still bomb and shoot. but cop fight one on one they know the person's history and why they must be arrested not for the sake of the govt. but please stop this crap about cops here i love them and thats my opionion i cant help it. u dont thats yours. you dont have to write here. i need advive on my love life not on how bad the police force is
You'reasian Posted February 3, 2010 Posted February 3, 2010 The funny thing is that I actually thinking of getting arrested just to see him but I'm a nurse and being a nurse I can't have a criminal record so I can't . It's sad that he does work at the police station by my house and every day I see a police car I hope I get pulled over by him so I drive fast just to get pulled over but it's never him. I got many tickets sadly and I know almost everyone at the police station now going there to talk about the tickets lol. They all know me now. And I can't call him cause he changed his number. I miss him so much I feel this terrible pressure in my chest everytime I think about him. Everytime I see a cop car my heart starts to rush I can't breath cause I think he might be in that car. It's been since aug that I last talked to him or saw him but I still love him so much. It makes me wonder if I will ever get over him... Was he my true love? Did I **** up my true love with my own two hands? **** me....!!! You don't have his phone number, so don't call the guy. Let him go. He's moved on.
Author Nurs123 Posted February 3, 2010 Author Posted February 3, 2010 You don't have his phone number' date=' so don't call the guy. Let him go. He's moved on.[/quote'] easy say then done..... i have let him go i dont call him or harrass him or anything. but who can tell my stupid heart? before i met him i never believed in love. i made fun of people in love but now i look at myself and feel so embarrassed cause i have always been so independent i have never been the kind of a person who cries for a guy. i always yelled at my friends for it. he has made my life hell. i havent talked to him since aug now its feb i still think about him every sec of the day. i never believed in love till i met him and now im left here in love with a guy who hates me cause of my own stupidity why is love so horrible ? why does it hurt so so bad. hes in my head when i go to bed, and i pray so i dream about him so atleast i can see him in my dreams. and if im lucky i have a dream about him... when i wake up hes in my head all through the day.. i go to work i think of him. everytime i see a cadalic drive by i think its him, or a cop car or an asian guy. im going crazy... if this is love i dont want it anymore.. i hate love... it sucks... its obsesssion...
You'reasian Posted February 3, 2010 Posted February 3, 2010 easy say then done..... i have let him go i dont call him or harrass him or anything. but who can tell my stupid heart? before i met him i never believed in love. i made fun of people in love but now i look at myself and feel so embarrassed cause i have always been so independent i have never been the kind of a person who cries for a guy. i always yelled at my friends for it. he has made my life hell. i havent talked to him since aug now its feb i still think about him every sec of the day. i never believed in love till i met him and now im left here in love with a guy who hates me cause of my own stupidity why is love so horrible ? why does it hurt so so bad. hes in my head when i go to bed, and i pray so i dream about him so atleast i can see him in my dreams. and if im lucky i have a dream about him... when i wake up hes in my head all through the day.. i go to work i think of him. everytime i see a cadalic drive by i think its him, or a cop car or an asian guy. im going crazy... if this is love i dont want it anymore.. i hate love... it sucks... its obsesssion... Perhaps you should see a counselor? Maybe they could help you work through this.
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