HelloGoodbye2010 Posted February 2, 2010 Posted February 2, 2010 (edited) Hey, Been seeing this girl, we've slept with each other and everything so we are past friends/dating. Thought everything was going well, she asked me to go somewhere with her for a weekend to which i rejected. Got a bit scared and just said no. Now i dont really know where i stand with her, she seems slightly cold with us. She still txts back and asks me how the weekends gone etc. Quite confused tho! Although she's probably feeling more rejected and just been reserved. Edited February 2, 2010 by HelloGoodbye2010
Satisfaction Posted February 4, 2010 Posted February 4, 2010 Call her and ask her what's wrong. Tell her that you really like her and you hope she did not get the wrong idea when you turned her down for the weekend. Why did you turn her down by the way. why were you scared?
Author HelloGoodbye2010 Posted February 5, 2010 Author Posted February 5, 2010 i dont know why i said no, protecting myself i suppose. I will be seeing her at the wkend so i shall say how i feel. hope its not too late!
sunrae Posted February 5, 2010 Posted February 5, 2010 She's probably wondering the same thing, she maybe wondering why it seems you pulled away.. Talk to her, tell her you like her.
Author HelloGoodbye2010 Posted February 6, 2010 Author Posted February 6, 2010 Yeh, i'll be seeing her tonight. We've hardly talked since that weekend. 2 Weeks ago, spoken on FB and thats about it, no txting or anything. We were txting everyday before that. I dont know what to do...
counterman Posted February 6, 2010 Posted February 6, 2010 Ask her what is wrong and listen. Remember to let her talk and listen. Tell her how you feel too and tell her you hope she didn't get the wrong idea about why you rejected her offer for the weekend.
Author HelloGoodbye2010 Posted February 9, 2010 Author Posted February 9, 2010 A little update - saw her over the wkend, didnt really speak to her much, got a bit nervous and shy, for whatever reason i dont know. Been txting each other since the wkend, chatting over IM. Asked her out on a date via txt (i know i know), replied with that she would like to do something and that it would be nice, then replied asking her what she would like to do and gave her some options but she hasnt replied. I've spoken to her on IM since these txts. Should i ring her again and ask when were going on this date then or should i leave it her for to decide, or take it she doesnt want to go on a date?
Recommended Posts