JaneDoe35 Posted February 2, 2010 Posted February 2, 2010 I know it may be too early for some here on LS to be having these thoughts but I have been wondering....... What is one thing you don't miss about your ex partner/husband/wife? Obviously I still miss my husband but I don't miss his habit of losing things quite often - phone, wallet, clothes etc. Small I know but really annoying to me. Does anyone else have anything?
jesslindy Posted February 2, 2010 Posted February 2, 2010 I can tell you I will not miss being blamed.
JLoves Posted February 2, 2010 Posted February 2, 2010 Wondering if she is going to walk in the door and tell me she is leaving. Thats what pushed me over in the end...
Author JaneDoe35 Posted February 2, 2010 Author Posted February 2, 2010 I don't miss feeling paranoid that he was up to no good....he was!!!!
White Flower Posted February 2, 2010 Posted February 2, 2010 I know it may be too early for some here on LS to be having these thoughts but I have been wondering....... What is one thing you don't miss about your ex partner/husband/wife? Obviously I still miss my husband but I don't miss his habit of losing things quite often - phone, wallet, clothes etc. Small I know but really annoying to me. Does anyone else have anything?I miss absolutely nothing about my exH. Especially the never-ending narcissistic blame.
Brooke79 Posted February 2, 2010 Posted February 2, 2010 Funny how blame is pretty much the constant....
nobmagnet Posted February 2, 2010 Posted February 2, 2010 I miss nothing. He was a lowlife cheating nasty git. miss nowt Nobby xx
hopesndreams Posted February 2, 2010 Posted February 2, 2010 Just one? He was angry and aggressive behind the wheel. Always cursing a blue streak at the other drivers on the road for what "they" did wrong. If I didn't nod in agreement and say a few choice words as well, he would get all sulky.
skywriter Posted February 2, 2010 Posted February 2, 2010 (edited) This yr will mark the nineth yr since my ex-H left. It wasn't long after though, that our kids actually admitted out loud, what they realised. I was still in the grieving stage and our kids, said to me, "We don't have to wonder what today is going to be like". It was true, the anger and unhappiness, in that house was so thick you could slice it. Kids know more than we like to admit. In fact, we use them as a reason to hang on. So, I don't miss the mood swings. Edited February 2, 2010 by skywriter
sumdude Posted February 2, 2010 Posted February 2, 2010 Stressing and using up way too much brainpower wondering what part of anything she said was true.
WTFO Posted February 2, 2010 Posted February 2, 2010 .... So, I don't miss the mood swings. x2. You never knew what your going to get coming home from wk. That, and the shopping to fill a void thing/debt.
White Flower Posted February 2, 2010 Posted February 2, 2010 His Mother! Oh yeah, I forgot that one! I wasn't a part of the Mutual Admiration Society.
floridapad Posted February 2, 2010 Posted February 2, 2010 Constantly being reminded to not leave the seat up.
AChick Posted February 2, 2010 Posted February 2, 2010 Feeling like an idoit for telling him how I feel. I am still having trouble trusting my new boyfriend for letting him in and letting him know how much I love and care for him!
FeelingLonely98 Posted February 2, 2010 Posted February 2, 2010 (edited) Great Thread Jane!! Not gonna miss: - wondering if she will blindside me again - complaints about me working too much - complaints about the smell of something I'm cooking - complaints about not having a better house, not living by the beach, not having a fireplace, ...ETC - "I hate it when you _______" comments - "I don't want to go to _____" comments - "I'm too fat", "My hair is horrible", "My teeth are not white enough", ... comments (even though I told her she looked great.) - Having to wait 30-60 minutes for her to get ready to just go to the supermarket. "I'm not going out looking like a piece of sh*t"! OH BOY - there are so many more ... LOL Actually - not missing much except her family. They treated me well and liked me. Nice folks. (Even her Mom was nice to me and cared for me!!!) Edited February 2, 2010 by FeelingLonely98
dgiirl Posted February 3, 2010 Posted February 3, 2010 His passive aggressive ways to tell me I'm not good enough. The constant pressure to be perfect, and guilt when I'm not. Being the very last priority in his life. Being told I demand too much from him when I want to be a priority. The low self esteem I had when I was with him. Him taking inventory of the cellulite I have gained (at 25!) and told it will never go away, right after sex! The sex! His thinking he is smarter than everyone else. Him!
You Go Girl Posted February 3, 2010 Posted February 3, 2010 Being sent the message that relationships are not based on honesty and openness--that's just me being overly demanding. Very loud snoring. Alcoholic binges. Trying to have a logical conversation with a drunk person. Watching him check somebody else out. Wondering if that keylogger is active on the computer and I'm being spied on for no good reason except kicks. The urge to look at the computer history to see what sneaky stuff he has been up to. Lies. Arguments that are never fair because they are full of lies and evasive manuvers.
nobmagnet Posted February 3, 2010 Posted February 3, 2010 I shall not miss his farts. I shall not miss his chubby gut I shall not miss his premature ejaculation Nobby xxx
carhill Posted February 3, 2010 Posted February 3, 2010 What is one thing you don't miss about your ex partner/husband/wife? Tripping over shoes in every room I could do a laundry list but I'm at the humorous stage now, and the OP said 'one thing'
nobmagnet Posted February 3, 2010 Posted February 3, 2010 Him dropping sock fluff everywhere! God that p*ssed me off!! Nobbyxx
FeelingLonely98 Posted February 4, 2010 Posted February 4, 2010 I shall not miss his farts. I shall not miss his chubby gut I shall not miss his premature ejaculation Nobby xxx 3 strikes for Lowly!!!
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