lych Posted February 2, 2010 Posted February 2, 2010 (edited) me and my ex has been on and off for almost two years. we completely gone no contact for more than three months. the last time we talked, he said he didn't wanna talk to anyone and hung up on me. he doesn't wanna talk to anyone because he can't trust anyone including me since he didn't like me talking to his mom just cause he doesn't like her getting in his business. and the whole purpose we fought is cause he caught me and his mom talking and "thought" i was telling her secrets. which isn't true. he overreacted, said he hates the world, doesn't trust anyone. and i've been trying to work it out for two weeks and he just said he didn't know anymore. after that, we've gone no contact for 3 months. and just out of nowhere, he calls me. should i just not bother anymore? or should i answer? what would you do? Edited February 2, 2010 by lych
LostInLimbo Posted February 2, 2010 Posted February 2, 2010 Hi Lych, with replying to your other posts, I know its hard, but this guy has issues, you need to realy think twice but welcoming him back with open arms, trust me when I say, read my posts, I know what your going through. best of luck LiL
CrestfallenNoMore Posted February 2, 2010 Posted February 2, 2010 Leave him alone. He's obviously confused and not sure what he wants. By pushing him to decide to fulfill YOUR need for a decision you'll only push him away. I'd just go back to N/C and refocus your energy on your life and the things you like to do.
Author lych Posted February 2, 2010 Author Posted February 2, 2010 It's hard because i just don't wanna be treated like that anymore... =/ but i just wanted to say thanks for your replies, i really deeply appreciate it <3
CrestfallenNoMore Posted February 2, 2010 Posted February 2, 2010 Well, if you don't like the way you're being treated, then what's up for debate? I know, it's not that black and white and that simple but, in a way, it really is.
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