Cinnamon Posted February 2, 2010 Posted February 2, 2010 Why would a man ask for exclusivity on 3-4th dates? Is there smth wrong with him? There was the only making out, no intercourse was done. There is no emotional and intellectual connection yet. What is the right time in dating to talk about exclusivity?
greatgirlfriend Posted February 2, 2010 Posted February 2, 2010 It depends. The guy I am dating asked me to date only him on our first date. However we already knew each other for years. But lately he's been saying he has no problem if I date others, which is odd. I guess he knows I won't have sex.
Barky Posted February 2, 2010 Posted February 2, 2010 Better than the last girl I dated. It was our second date, we were having sex, I told her I was about to come and she said, "I'm the monogamous type, you are too right?" And I said, "OH YESSSsssss."
DiscoChick Posted February 2, 2010 Posted February 2, 2010 When the connection has been established. Date doesn't matter. Any guy that can laugh through "Hostel" with me, I'm game.
Author Cinnamon Posted February 2, 2010 Author Posted February 2, 2010 Better than the last girl I dated. It was our second date, we were having sex, I told her I was about to come and she said, "I'm the monogamous type, you are too right?" And I said, "OH YESSSsssss." You are lucky. At least, you had sex with her before/during the exclusivity conversation.
monkey00 Posted February 2, 2010 Posted February 2, 2010 Generally after 2 - 3 weeks of dating you should probably have a good idea or be able to feel out where it's headed. Especially if sex gets involved.
Satisfaction Posted February 2, 2010 Posted February 2, 2010 I don't think you need to have sex before you decide you connect. If you don't feel the same then you can break up with him or stop seeing him.
Barky Posted February 2, 2010 Posted February 2, 2010 I know a lot of people who have sex TO connect.
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