asnesque Posted February 1, 2010 Posted February 1, 2010 (edited) my ex recently broke up with me because she wanted her independence. long story short, weve been together for 4 years and we are in love with each other, but my ex wants her independence. there was nothing i can do or say to that besides bite the bullet and nod my head and agree with her decision. i dont hate her for it, i do understand where she is coming from. i do love this girl and she feels the same way too (as she says many times and we dont have anything to hide from one another) but she just needs her space atm, which is good she reaslized this now instead of later on down the track. the relationship hasnt been the perfect one (are there any), but it was still a great relationship none the less. my question is, what do i do? do i want to become friends or do i just drop everything and leave it at that and try to move on. i do want to be with her, but i dont want to pressure her into wanting me back, i want her to do that on her own accord (if it happens) i respect what the reason is, i dont understand it, but i want her to be happy and if this is what makes her happy then so be it. we both are very close to each others family and shes even the godmother of my nephew which she adores so much. theres a wedding coming up and her birthday too which is why im asking what should i do? i am sad and very hurt by all this but i do want her to be happy, even if it hurts me in the process. i wouldnt think twice about taking her back if she does come back but am i ruining my chances by being friends with her? i do want her to realized that she has lost something but can i do that as a friend or should i start NC? help! Edited February 1, 2010 by asnesque
GrayClouds Posted February 2, 2010 Posted February 2, 2010 The bottom line is she does not care for you enough to be in relationship with you. You not her priority and should only want to be with someone who see you as her priority. Read the link and follow what it says: So you want a second chance? There is nothing you can do to persuad her one way or another. It is up to her. Show repect for yourself if she does not want a relationship with you then do not try to give her one. Go complete NC
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