OpenGL Posted February 1, 2010 Posted February 1, 2010 On these forums and in real life you hear women whine and btch all day about every man these meet being a loser, ex: http://www.loveshack.org/forums/t219660/ http://www.loveshack.org/forums/t219591/ Do you really think we believe that every single guy, or even most guys for that matter, that come on to you are actually losers? When the reality is that you likely rejected him before even getting to know him? No, you found him unattractive for whatever 100 different reasons you superficially disqualify someone. So stop coming here btching about you meeting nothing but losers. It's bogus and we know it. Just because you find us unattractive, don't bunch us into the same category as alcoholic deadbeats who live with their mothers and haven't held a stable job in years. They are the real losers, not us. You are not meeting losers. You are the loser.
greatgirlfriend Posted February 1, 2010 Posted February 1, 2010 Since I've made comments about unattractive guys, it's a little different in my mind. First off, the guy I really like isn't cute at all (imagine Mario from the video game mated with Yoda and there you are). He's also a little chubby. I've dated some very unattractive guys. Some were great and others weren't. When I talk about unattractive I am talking two things: either obese guys, or slobs. These two things can be helped. If you never brush your teeth (or have none), have matted hair, or wear dirty clothes you are unattractive. If you are 300 pounds that's also unattractive. To me these guys are losers because they choose not to improve themselves.
Author OpenGL Posted February 1, 2010 Author Posted February 1, 2010 Since I've made comments about unattractive guys, it's a little different in my mind. First off, the guy I really like isn't cute at all (imagine Mario from the video game mated with Yoda and there you are). He's also a little chubby. I've dated some very unattractive guys. Some were great and others weren't. When I talk about unattractive I am talking two things: either obese guys, or slobs. These two things can be helped. If you never brush your teeth (or have none), have matted hair, or wear dirty clothes you are unattractive. If you are 300 pounds that's also unattractive. To me these guys are losers because they choose not to improve themselves. Ok, in this case I agree. If you're a fat slob or a skinny rat you're a loser. I'm talking about guys that are in great shape but just unattractive (to you).
jw90063 Posted February 1, 2010 Posted February 1, 2010 I've always found the men who seem like as*holes, and whine about why they don't get girls at gyms to be real losers but that's just me.
Tinker Bell Posted February 1, 2010 Posted February 1, 2010 You sound angry and frustrated...correct me if I am wrong. Well, physical attraction is very important in my eyes. If I am not attracted I can't help it. That does not mean I am superficial. But I need to be attracted to someone. I don't just date models or reject guys that might be less good looking. In my last relationship my partner gained some weight but I couldn't have cared less. And then again, everybody has a different taste. What I consider as attractive might not be considered as attractive by my girlfriends. In fact within my circle of friends we all have a very different taste. So maybe if you always get rejected there is something wrong with your attitude? I don't mean to insult you, really not, that is not constructive. But I am telling you my opinion.
jw90063 Posted February 1, 2010 Posted February 1, 2010 Ok, in this case I agree. If you're a fat slob or a skinny rat you're a loser. I'm talking about guys that are in great shape but just unattractive (to you). So if a really nice girl was overweight or underweight, she's automatically a loser? And you have the nerve to start such a thread as to why being unattractive makes a guy a loser?
Author OpenGL Posted February 1, 2010 Author Posted February 1, 2010 You sound angry and frustrated...correct me if I am wrong. Well, physical attraction is very important in my eyes. If I am not attracted I can't help it. That does not mean I am superficial. But I need to be attracted to someone. I don't just date models or reject guys that might be less good looking. In my last relationship my partner gained some weight but I couldn't have cared less. And then again, everybody has a different taste. What I consider as attractive might not be considered as attractive by my girlfriends. In fact within my circle of friends we all have a very different taste. So maybe if you always get rejected there is something wrong with your attitude? I don't mean to insult you, really not, that is not constructive. But I am telling you my opinion. Thats not what I said, you mis-understood. I never said physical attraction wasn't important (I already know it's #1 priority for women). What I said is just because you find someone unattractive doesn't make them a loser like most women who say "all the men I meet are losers" claim.
Author OpenGL Posted February 1, 2010 Author Posted February 1, 2010 So if a really nice girl was overweight or underweight, she's automatically a loser? And you have the nerve to start such a thread as to why being unattractive makes a guy a loser? Yes, if a girl is very overweight shes a loser for not taking care of herself and eating healthy. You will not be obese if you have a proper diet even with no excerise. If she is very underweight that means she had psychological problems.
greatgirlfriend Posted February 1, 2010 Posted February 1, 2010 Ok, in this case I agree. If you're a fat slob or a skinny rat you're a loser. I'm talking about guys that are in great shape but just unattractive (to you). Most of the slobs I've met were overweight too, but a few were thin. Then again I don't judge by looks. In fact I dated a few extremely homely guys as in "what is a pretty girl doing with a homely guy like him?".
burning 4 revenge Posted February 1, 2010 Posted February 1, 2010 Well loser can refer to many things depending on what someone may be talking about. If someone is talking about someone being unattractive then they technically can be called a loser, because they lost when it came to looks. Im a loser in like 10,000 different aspects, Ive just learned to embrace it like its the new black
Tinker Bell Posted February 1, 2010 Posted February 1, 2010 Thats not what I said, you mis-understood. I never said physical attraction wasn't important (I already know it's #1 priority for women). What I said is just because you find someone unattractive doesn't make them a loser like most women who say "all the men I meet are losers" claim. Thanks for correcting me. Well in that case, yeah those women are stupid. Being a loser to me has nothing to do with physical appearance.
ella23 Posted February 1, 2010 Posted February 1, 2010 Where did the two women imply that the guys approaching them were losers because they were unattractive?
Crazy Magnet Posted February 1, 2010 Posted February 1, 2010 Where did the two women imply that the guys approaching them were losers because they were unattractive? Yeah, I missed that part.
EM47 Posted February 1, 2010 Posted February 1, 2010 Most guys are losers and most girls are losers too. Dating will work if 2 losers get together, but if a loser tries to get together with a non loser, it won't work. I am not talking about looks here at all by the way.
EM47 Posted February 1, 2010 Posted February 1, 2010 Yes, if a girl is very overweight shes a loser for not taking care of herself and eating healthy. You will not be obese if you have a proper diet even with no excerise. If she is very underweight that means she had psychological problems. what are you a doctor now too? some people can eat well and still be overweight, maybe they have some medical condition.
Woggle Posted February 1, 2010 Posted February 1, 2010 Women will call men losers for merely existing. I stoppd trying to fit into their criteria of what is not a loser and I suggest other men do as well.
hoping2heal Posted February 1, 2010 Posted February 1, 2010 On these forums and in real life you hear women whine and btch all day about every man these meet being a loser, ex: http://www.loveshack.org/forums/t219660/ http://www.loveshack.org/forums/t219591/ Do you really think we believe that every single guy, or even most guys for that matter, that come on to you are actually losers? When the reality is that you likely rejected him before even getting to know him? No, you found him unattractive for whatever 100 different reasons you superficially disqualify someone. So stop coming here btching about you meeting nothing but losers. It's bogus and we know it. Just because you find us unattractive, don't bunch us into the same category as alcoholic deadbeats who live with their mothers and haven't held a stable job in years. They are the real losers, not us. You are not meeting losers. You are the loser. Quit being such a hypocrite OP. You are always whining and complaining about fat girls right? Why do you judge them before getting to know them? Why are they losers because YOU think they are unattractive.
littlebittle Posted February 1, 2010 Posted February 1, 2010 Where did the two women imply that the guys approaching them were losers because they were unattractive? projection |prəˈjek sh ən| noun to transfer or attribute one’s own emotion or desire to (another person), esp. unconsciously : men may sometimes project their own fears onto women.
hoping2heal Posted February 1, 2010 Posted February 1, 2010 Yes, if a girl is very overweight shes a loser for not taking care of herself and eating healthy. You will not be obese if you have a proper diet even with no excerise. If she is very underweight that means she had psychological problems. Okay, then by your own standard your a loser by not taking better care of yourself and seeing a therapist so you can be emotionally and mentally healthy. Last I checked..all the overweight girls I knew were dating/engaged or married to great loving guys, ambitious, career, college grads, good looking themselves. Oh yeah, and they were overweight when the men began dating/got engaged too/or married them.
ella23 Posted February 1, 2010 Posted February 1, 2010 projection |prəˈjek sh ən| noun to transfer or attribute one’s own emotion or desire to (another person), esp. unconsciously : men may sometimes project their own fears onto women. lol Seriously though, this thread is ridiculous. Those two women didn't say anything that indicated that the guys' looks were the problem.
PJKino Posted February 1, 2010 Posted February 1, 2010 Womens whole life is about beauty and attractiveness, Men who carry these attratcive traits are looked upon as superior people in womens minds..
Pizzaman81 Posted February 3, 2010 Posted February 3, 2010 I've always found the men who seem like as*holes, and whine about why they don't get girls at gyms to be real losers but that's just me. OH.. SNAP!
Pizzaman81 Posted February 3, 2010 Posted February 3, 2010 Thats not what I said, you mis-understood. I never said physical attraction wasn't important (I already know it's #1 priority for women). What I said is just because you find someone unattractive doesn't make them a loser like most women who say "all the men I meet are losers" claim. Do you have proof sir, that when they say "all men I meet are losers" they are also talking about them being unattractive? I need a 1 to 1 link here.
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