sumdude Posted February 2, 2010 Posted February 2, 2010 Simplify it to sexual release.. then it is a need. Men who abstain completely? Their bodies will still take care of it while they sleep. Wake up to a sticky wet surprise. Not sure how women 's bodies deal with it though. And to add to the needs for survival as a human being and not just a bag of guts. I believe humans need other humans. Our species would not have thrived or survived without living in societal groups. Being exiled and ostracized way way back in the day was almost certain death for a solo homo sapien. On the evolutionary timeline that wasn't very long ago.
greatgirlfriend Posted February 2, 2010 Posted February 2, 2010 (edited) Sex isn't a need. Those guys who think nothing of having multiple partners (without the partners knowing) are immoral creatures and will be going to hell. Have fun now because you'll burn for eternity. Edited February 2, 2010 by greatgirlfriend
You'reasian Posted February 3, 2010 Posted February 3, 2010 He said he wanted to be believe that if the girl was great in every other way, the fact that she didn't like sex wasn't a big deal and that the relationship was still worth having. At some point he changed his tune (thank god!!) and he realizes sex is just as important as the rest of it. I just found it weird that a man would ever think this way. He must have had some girls who straight up hated sex or were prudes or something. As a woman I definitely NEED sex. Although, I won't have ONS or random sex to get my needs met. I will wait for some type of relationship to come along. I'm very open sexually, but only in a relationship where I trust the other person and where there is mutual respect. Otherwise, it's getting freaky just for the sake of getting freaky, and I'm over those days. Its good to hear this kind of thing. Yep, sex is important. I think its a natural desire to be shared with someone in a relationship and damned the condoms, full speed ahead!
Barky Posted February 3, 2010 Posted February 3, 2010 Ok, I did not see many threads on Sex. So I want to hit really HARD on this one. Everyone NEEDS sex, I've read some posts on women who say "Sex is just a pleasure thing, but I do not need it." Really? In a relationship, SEX is 98% important to SUSTAIN healthy relationship. If a woman is not sexually satisfied by her partner, NO MATTER how much she "loves" him or respects him ... she will NO LONGER be attracted to that man ... because of the lack of sexual experience. So this is a really an important issue. So women ... do not give me this "I do not need sex, it is just for pleasure." Sex is as important as you require food, drink water & breathing air. So what happens to the other 2%? This is the romance, also material things like money & all external or tangible things. Sex is the real kicker that will unlock those feelings of intimacy & love. As far as I am concerned ... Most men are terrible in satisfying women, sexually. Why? Because of PORN!!! of course ... porn is not the real thing, it is set up in a way to make profit, it is a business. Yea .. the interactions are real, but the message these interactions send are wrong. If a man watches porn, it doesn't make him a GREAT lover. It is actually makes him worse lover, because of all wrong messages the porn industry makes, because THEY know sex is one of the basic needs & people in the business know how to push those emotional buttons in their buyers to make profit from sexual interactions that has nothing to do with the REAL ones. oh goody, another porn-bashing thread:sick:
Barky Posted February 3, 2010 Posted February 3, 2010 Sex isn't a need. Those guys who think nothing of having multiple partners (without the partners knowing) are immoral creatures and will be going to hell. Have fun now because you'll burn for eternity. :laugh:
Ashkayi Posted February 3, 2010 Posted February 3, 2010 Sex isnt the most important thing in a relationship if there is NO love. Sex is just natures way of keeping the circle of life going. When two people are in love, sex is the most enjoyable most pleasurable thing ive ever experienced. Im not a man, so i dont know whats its like for them, but for me, there has to be love, and when theres love i'll do whatever it takes to please my man in every way.
Author Itzo Posted February 3, 2010 Author Posted February 3, 2010 oh goody, another porn-bashing thread:sick: you did not see nothing yet
Author Itzo Posted February 3, 2010 Author Posted February 3, 2010 Sex isnt the most important thing in a relationship if there is NO love. Sex is just natures way of keeping the circle of life going. When two people are in love, sex is the most enjoyable most pleasurable thing ive ever experienced. Im not a man, so i dont know whats its like for them, but for me, there has to be love, and when theres love i'll do whatever it takes to please my man in every way. If there is NO sex, there is NO Love. If you do not have sex with the person you like ... you are not attracted to that person at all. Sex is not only to keep the cycle of life. In creates also emotional bonds between individuals.
meerkat stew Posted February 3, 2010 Posted February 3, 2010 If there is NO sex, there is NO Love. If you do not have sex with the person you like ... you are not attracted to that person at all. You have confirmed with that statement that this is the top "short bus" thread on the forum at the moment. Getting back off the bus now. Carry on with the drooling and clapping.
Jersey Shortie Posted February 3, 2010 Posted February 3, 2010 (edited) Thanks for your effors anyway Itzo, no need to "thank me for my efforts anyway". This is a message board met to yield discussions, not attempted lofty “thank-yous”. If you don’t want a discussion, then don’t ask for one. You are looking this at a different angle. Sex is maintaining my healthy well being (you said mental, which is close), so it is some kind of maintenance for my individual life . Okay then is your argument about what would personally make *you* survive or die? If so, then I can not argue what you think will make you personally kick the bucket mentally or physically. If you want to make this a thread about your individual life, so be it. However, your first post was based on general commentary and you said quoted: “Sex is as important as you require food, drink water & breathing air.” To which it really isn’t on an individual survival basis. And yes, I believe sex to be a good ingredient in maintaining mental health. However, I do not think someone will end up in a straight jacket if they go without sex for the rest of their lives. If you go without food, water or air, you’re pretty much dead. Then we don’t really even have to worry about the sex at that point do we. Don't worry, there will be another chance I’ll await on you to present it. They are just a selfless bitches I hope you are not one of them ... I think you meant to say “selfish” not “selfless”. A woman is a selfish bitch if she uses birth control? No, I am not a selfish bitch and yes, I practice safe sex against impregnation AND STDs. However, it matters not what I practice personally. To label any woman a selfish bitch for the practice of birth control is 100% ignorant. When you talk on a individual level, it sounds a little selfish. Survivor is a mutual concept, not an individual one. One species cannot live without another one. I’m sure wild wolves could live just fine without us an feed on our dead carcasses. When I talk on an individual level, it has nothing to do with the giving or taking or selfish or selfless. It has to do with factual science. Each one of us could survive without sex. Period. This is not a statement about how we should all be the wings beneath each other wings and other junk/ Your posts are very superficial, I am talking at a deep level. All you need to do is just to dive in to see what I am trying to say All I need to do is "agree" with you and see your way is the right way is what you are really trying to say. My posts are clearly defined and outlined and proven with facts. At this point, it’s hard to follow you as you back track, are wishy washy and pull and push the point whenever you have a feeling to do so. I wonder if living in New Jersey has any relation to our outlook. Maybe NJ makes people NOT want to reproduce lol It’s not that I don’t love sex. I really do and am a sexual person. My comments have nothing to do with the place sex and romantic relationship hold in my life. I am just being honest. Everyone of us could survive without sex if we had to. Edited February 3, 2010 by Jersey Shortie
SincereOnlineGuy Posted February 4, 2010 Posted February 4, 2010 In a relationship, SEX is 98% important to SUSTAIN healthy relationship. Ha!!! Get real "SEX" isn't even 98% important to the 'relationships' between hookers and their clients!
jenifer1972 Posted February 4, 2010 Posted February 4, 2010 Besides the fact that we all seem to have a burning desire for sex, has anyone every had the thought that sex looks absolutely ridiculous if you look at it in a detached way? Sometimes I have thought the "gods" must really have enjoyed messing with humans..no matter how powerful or sophisticated or proper they are, put in them a desire to strip their clothes off and do something that looks completely ridiculous to outside observation, but everyone feels compelled to do it. Sometimes I look at people on TV like the Queen of England, politicians, etc. up there pontificating, etc., and try to imagine them doing it ... What a goofy planet we are on.
Mr White Posted February 4, 2010 Posted February 4, 2010 Sex is way overrated, unless you aren't getting any... I was just thinking about that. Through a period of regular sex it's easy to wonder what's fuss all about.
Author Itzo Posted February 4, 2010 Author Posted February 4, 2010 Ha!!! Get real "SEX" isn't even 98% important to the 'relationships' between hookers and their clients! interesting point. But is it all about for what purpose you use sex. It is 98% to create the emotional bonds in the relationship ... the rest is romance, money and everything else that is needed to sustain the relationship. Sex it is not important 98% for hookers to maintaing a good living as a job, neither for the client. I guess they both do not put any emotions to it. So the meaning of sex diminishes. They just use it for a different purpose. I am talking about relationships here ... not dumb hookers who pretend that are bending over, while actually walking
OndaChin Posted February 4, 2010 Posted February 4, 2010 Correction: People don't NEED sex, they simply WANT it because it is pleasurable. Just like drugs, alcohol, and fast food. It feels good to do it, but you aren't going to keel over and die if you don't have it. You're Wrong... I''ll sure as hell keel over and Die without it!
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