marlena Posted February 2, 2010 Posted February 2, 2010 I kind of like both. Are you a diplomat? Of course, we were both enemies at one time but that was a long time ago. So, let bygones be bygones, right?
Jersey Shortie Posted February 2, 2010 Posted February 2, 2010 Correct me if I am wrong but cavemen were having a hell of an orgasmic time, club in hand, dragging in any female they perchance encoutered ...pure, primal instinct in all its glory... speaking the truth... no matte how "civilization" tries to coccoon it in a swaddle of lies... Absolutely. But what does this have to do with my comments here? And why in the world are you now debating the civil attitudes of "civilzation" for? Did anyone try to say it was all pretty dollies and unicorns? Ok, tell me this ... how your genes that you inherited by your parents will be passed on to the next generation, if you do not have sex? You did not need it? You will just become a infertile. You failed to read my sentences completely. I clearly stated that sex is not needed for the survival or an individual person. It's not. Once you are born, you can survive a whole life without sex. At this point in history with population embound, you also over inflate the importance of an individual human beings procreation. In today's world, you do not need sex to survive on a basic human level. Your genes might die off but you, as an individual, do not need sex to maintain your individual life. Your biological drives maintain the idea that you should pass your genes ... that's why you are having all these ovulation periods to keep your internal system clean, not matter you like it or not. No matter if I like it or not? Good lord. Did I say I didn't like it? Lol. Not all biological drives are necessary to survival. Infact, we fight many of our biolgical drives to infact survive in modern day society. Just because something is biological, doesn't mean it's necessary. You do not say ... I do not want to have kids, so I do not need those periods therefore I do not need sex. ok, you get the point ... Actually, I am rather unclear to what your point is here. So you do not say ... OK I do not need ovaluation periods, because I do not like them or I do not need them, because I can live long enough without having them. You just can't stop these processes, yet you need them to maintain the cycle of life, I call this survival. Women everyday take birth control to curb their ovulations. Women everyday infact do say " I do not need my period. I do not like them. I do not want them. I can live without them." and take birth control. And they still survive. I will repeat, on an indivdual level, when it comes to a indivdual's survival, you do not need sex. Because ovaluation periods prepare yourself to be a mother one day, to get pregnant and so on. Sex is a need, to make this process happening. Sex. Love. family. Children. They are desires. They are important no one will deny. And I am for one, glad they are there. But each one of us, on an indivudal level, could survive th rest of our days without them if we had to.
Author Itzo Posted February 2, 2010 Author Posted February 2, 2010 Are you a diplomat? Of course, we were both enemies at one time but that was a long time ago. So, let bygones be bygones, right? I do not live in the past
marlena Posted February 2, 2010 Posted February 2, 2010 Once you are born, you can survive a whole life without sex. If everyone thought along these lines, than the human race would have been extinct a long time ago.. Perhaps, this hasn't happened because at some deeper, primal level, no matter how hard society has tried to incriminate sex, we are, in the final analysis, made to procreate.
marlena Posted February 2, 2010 Posted February 2, 2010 I do not live in the past Glad to hear it. Neither do I. Vacationed in Golden Sands a couple of summers ago. Good food, good music...
Jersey Shortie Posted February 2, 2010 Posted February 2, 2010 My statement is pure fact. I didn't say people should remain sexless their whole lives. I said that they could. It is a simple fact that anyone of us on an indivdual level could infact survive without sex. Can you argue that? No you really can't. It doesn't matter if you don't or do want to. Those are personal feelings.
Author Itzo Posted February 2, 2010 Author Posted February 2, 2010 You failed to read my sentences completely. I clearly stated that sex is not needed for the survival or an individual person. It's not. Once you are born, you can survive a whole life without sex. At this point in history with population embound, you also over inflate the importance of an individual human beings procreation. In today's world, you do not need sex to survive on a basic human level. Your genes might die off but you, as an individual, do not need sex to maintain your individual life. You are looking this at a different angle. Sex is maintaining my healthy well being (you said mental, which is close), so it is some kind of maintenance for my individual life No matter if I like it or not? Good lord. Did I say I didn't like it? Lol. I know you did not say it, I just gave you an example Not all biological drives are necessary to survival. Infact, we fight many of our biolgical drives to infact survive in modern day society. Just because something is biological, doesn't mean it's necessary. Which biological drives are not necessary for survival? Maybe this is true .. but we are talking about sex here. I agree into some extent that our biological drives can trip us out sometimes, like the sense of FEAR. This emotion is based on a sensitive part of the brain called amygdala. It suppose to protect us, but sometimes it comes out in situations where you do not need it the most. Actually, I am rather unclear to what your point is here. Don't worry, there will be another chance Women everyday take birth control to curb their ovulations. Women everyday infact do say " I do not need my period. I do not like them. I do not want them. I can live without them." and take birth control. And they still survive. They are just a selfless bitches I hope you are not one of them ... I will repeat, on an indivdual level, when it comes to a indivdual's survival, you do not need sex. You are thinking of sex like food, air and water. I am thinking of sex as reproduction, which is a form of survivor. Sex. Love. family. Children. They are desires. They are important no one will deny. And I am for one, glad they are there. But each one of us, on an indivudal level, could survive th rest of our days without them if we had to. When you talk on a individual level, it sounds a little selfish. Survivor is a mutual concept, not an individual one. One species cannot live without another one. Thanks for your effors anyway
Author Itzo Posted February 2, 2010 Author Posted February 2, 2010 Glad to hear it. Neither do I. Vacationed in Golden Sands a couple of summers ago. Good food, good music... Golden Sands is one of the best resorts around the Black See ... I can tell, you hit the erogenous zone there
Author Itzo Posted February 2, 2010 Author Posted February 2, 2010 My statement is pure fact. I didn't say people should remain sexless their whole lives. I said that they could. It is a simple fact that anyone of us on an indivdual level could infact survive without sex. Can you argue that? No you really can't. It doesn't matter if you don't or do want to. Those are personal feelings. Your posts are very superficial, I am talking at a deep level. All you need to do is just to dive in to see what I am trying to say.
espec10001 Posted February 2, 2010 Posted February 2, 2010 My statement is pure fact. I didn't say people should remain sexless their whole lives. I said that they could. It is a simple fact that anyone of us on an indivdual level could infact survive without sex. Can you argue that? No you really can't. It doesn't matter if you don't or do want to. Those are personal feelings. I wonder if living in New Jersey has any relation to our outlook. Maybe NJ makes people NOT want to reproduce lol.
Ms. Joolie Posted February 2, 2010 Posted February 2, 2010 It is a simple fact that anyone of us on an indivdual level could infact survive without sex. One individual can survive his/her entire lifespan without ever having sexual relationships with another human being. I suppose that is true, although personally I don't know anyone who's died a virgin. Would like to talk to that person who has. ...lol.
Author Itzo Posted February 2, 2010 Author Posted February 2, 2010 I wonder if living in New Jersey has any relation to our outlook. Maybe NJ makes people NOT want to reproduce lol. Not true, I've been in New Jersey ... actually I lived there for 3 months close to Boulevard East close to the Hudson River ... I can tell, people are very reproductive
Author Itzo Posted February 2, 2010 Author Posted February 2, 2010 One individual can survive his/her entire lifespan without ever having sexual relationships with another human being. I suppose that is true, although personally I don't know anyone who's died a virgin. Would like to talk to that person who has. ...lol. You are missing a point. Masturbation is also a form of sex. It is a sexual stimulation, so you cannot set the boudary there ...
marlena Posted February 2, 2010 Posted February 2, 2010 Golden Sands is one of the best resorts around the Black See ... I can tell, you hit the erogenous zone there Yes, it was fabulous!!
espec10001 Posted February 2, 2010 Posted February 2, 2010 Not true, I've been in New Jersey ... actually I lived there for 3 months close to Boulevard East close to the Hudson River ... I can tell, people are very reproductive 3 months is a visit. I've lived here for 26 years. Drugs, crime, violence, bringing a child into the world to live in New Jersey, not to mention high unemployment. Sex costs $$$. Whether it's a hooker or dates, sex ain't free.
Ms. Joolie Posted February 2, 2010 Posted February 2, 2010 You are missing a point. Masturbation is also a form of sex. It is a sexual stimulation, so you cannot set the boudary there ... If I were to throw you on a desert island, itzo ...and cut your hands off... you would HAVE to survive without sex. lol
marlena Posted February 2, 2010 Posted February 2, 2010 Masturbation is also a form of sex. It is a sexual stimulation, so you cannot set the boudary there ... I should think that would be obvious.
Author Itzo Posted February 2, 2010 Author Posted February 2, 2010 3 months is a visit. I've lived here for 26 years. Drugs, crime, violence, bringing a child into the world to live in New Jersey, not to mention high unemployment. Sex costs $$$. Whether it's a hooker or dates, sex ain't free. Don't tell me you pay for SEX?? :D Are you crazy? Only despaired people do this, and it is filty, you know. Drugs, crime & violence was in the past .. perhaps 15-20 years ago. Seems like you still live in the past.
MissJoness Posted February 2, 2010 Posted February 2, 2010 A person can live without sex, but they can become horribly depressed and lack self confidence. Have you read the threads made by male posters who are over the age of 21 and still virgins? A lot of them are suicidal, feel incredibly inadequate, depression, etc. It gets worse the older they get.
Author Itzo Posted February 2, 2010 Author Posted February 2, 2010 If I were to throw you on a desert island, itzo ...and cut your hands off... you would HAVE to survive without sex. lol I admire your sense of humor, but it doesn't work for me
marlena Posted February 2, 2010 Posted February 2, 2010 If I were to throw you on a desert island, itzo ...and cut your hands off... you would HAVE to survive without sex. lol He´d find a way, eventually, I am quite sure... as we all would.
Ms. Joolie Posted February 2, 2010 Posted February 2, 2010 He´d find a way, eventually, I am quite sure... as we all would. Good answer. Sex is SUCH a need! lol
Tony T Posted February 2, 2010 Posted February 2, 2010 Sex is way overrated, unless you aren't getting any...
espec10001 Posted February 2, 2010 Posted February 2, 2010 Don't tell me you pay for SEX?? :D Are you crazy? Only despaired people do this, and it is filty, you know. Drugs, crime & violence was in the past .. perhaps 15-20 years ago. Seems like you still live in the past. Let me put it to you this way, where I live: finance > romance. Drugs, crime, and violence is the reality here. Anyway you look at it, you gotta pay for sex. Dates cost money. The drinks at the bar cost money. Seeing the girls work the blocks, they're searching for $$$. Marriage and that big ring costs money. And I'm not saying ALL women are like that, because I know they aren't. But around here, that's the way it goes. It's the cold, harsh reality. If you ain't showing the $$$, you ain't getting nothing from any woman. Cash rules everything around me. I look around myself and ask "Is this the world I want a child to grow up in? The urban blight?"
marlena Posted February 2, 2010 Posted February 2, 2010 Sex is way overrated, unless you aren't getting any... Yes, like food.. doesn´t mean a thing unless you aren´t getting any ...
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