cant come to a decision

[wwk2265]

my gf of three years broke up with me about four months ago....but still calls a couple times a day....and says she hopes we can work things out and still get married one day but that things arent right just yet....she hasnt been seeing anyone else...and doesnt want me to either even though she says there s nothing she can do if i decide thats whats best for me......she even comes and stays the night and we cuddle and kiss (but i wolnt have sex with her even though she wants to)...she says she feels immature still and wants to grow up and be independent for a while before we take the next big step of living together(i just bought a house...she is 22 i am 25)...everytime i tell her how scared this situation makes me she acts like me feeling like a safety net and her finding someone else is crazy and says that s not how this is going to go she is still in love with me and doesnt want to do this without me???she says whatever actions i choose she accepts but doesnt like the idea of me dating and not talking to her....i really dont know whats best here???help.....ps our relationship ended mainly cause we fought the last 6 months cause i picked fights saying she didnt love me like i loved her cause she didnt want to take the next step and may never be ready