Girls How often do you make contact after the first date??

[counterman]

You can probably gauge the level of interest the guy has for you when or if he calls. Then again, he might be following some rule and calling you in a few more days then he wanted to.

 

Anyways, let him contact. If he doesn't, he's not interested and move on.

[brock25]

If a guy waits 3 days to call me, I assume he's following rules... It can be a turn off.

 

This is not always true. There are some reasons why a man might have called you 3 days later a date that has nothing to do with following rules or playing games

 

1. He was sick.

2. He was preoccupied with other things. Work, family etc.

3. He misplaced his cell phone or his cell phone wasn't working properly. The cell phone was the only place where he had stored your number.