jinx55 Posted February 1, 2010 Posted February 1, 2010 There is this girl I have been hanging out with. We have known each other for a few months now and have become close. When we first started hanging out we went on a date and for both of us we were unsure what to think of each other we didn't really know each other. Gradually we started talking every day on the phone for about an hour at least everyday and on skype as well. A little over a week ago we have been around each other every day and started seeing each other like a steady "boyfriend/girlfriend" relationship. She spent the last 2 nights at my place and might be over tonight. When I ask her about a relationship she says no. But it is weird because what we have is the same thing as any serious relationship I have ever had in the past. So what should I make of this girl and what should I do? On a side note I am not worried about becoming too attached and then finding out she lost all interest. I know there are a ton of girls out there if it doesn't ever end up as a real relationship and I already know what it feels like to lose someone you care about.
boogieboy Posted February 1, 2010 Posted February 1, 2010 She is using you as a booty call, or she is waiting for some other guy to start dating her. You need to not be so available to her if shes not going to give you what you want. if she doesnt want a relationship, dont give her all of your time.
DiscoChick Posted February 1, 2010 Posted February 1, 2010 She doesn't want a relationship. If you want more than sex, then I would suggest letting go of her and finding a woman that can offer you more. Do this before you become attached.
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