jun Posted January 31, 2010 Posted January 31, 2010 hey guys and gurls. im kinda new to this site. so heres my situation. i broke up with my gurl 3 days ago being together for 1 month. but i was overreacting and wasnt thinking straight what i did. so i tried to talk to her and try to get a second chance but she didnt want to. the reason why i broke it up because our 2 weeks was great. we were talking about, she would be txting every time if i dont reply back for at least 30 min. and when we sleeping together she would look at me and say i like you alot. but after our 3-4th together its been different..like shes busy with work and she hardly txt me, call me and when we sleep together she would facing the other way..and her friends txt her would she txt back and still face the other way wen shes done..and she tells me that its hard for her because shes really busy at work doing a double shift. i understand that..but i really dont understand is wen shes really busy at work. i know she always txt her bestfriends and gossip about **** and also on facebook. she would write something but now nothing..she also said that we dont talk much because we got nothing to say..before she would bring up some random stuff to talk.. so after we broke up. i tried explaning to her that i was really sorry about breakin up. and she keeps on saying we should stay friends its for the best.. she also told me she was hurt wen i broke it up..because she really liked me and i ****ed it up by breakin up. so yesterday i sent her a stargazing lilies and some roses and card saying how much i miss her and she would give me a second chance. then later that night she was at a party where i went. and my friend talked to her and she looked either mad or sad..couldnt tell cuz it was dark..and my friend pulled me to the side and told me i should move on because shes not looking for something serious..i was like wtf..we slept together and had sex..and you dont call that serious..idk how i felt. now im trying to move on at the same time i regret breakin up with her and want to be with her..so can anyone give me advice what to do. p.s. sorry about the long info..
LostInLimbo Posted February 1, 2010 Posted February 1, 2010 It almost sounds like you have both grown apart, if not that, its going to be hard for you to be just friends, feelings will never fade away, either one would not heal from the breakup, I would cut ties for a bit, but ask me, I know its hard. Try to be around ppl and friends, keep busy the best way you can, its plain and simple, if she wants you, she knows how to find you, not saying NC, but LC for now, till your able to heal and or she can. LiL
Author jun Posted February 1, 2010 Author Posted February 1, 2010 It almost sounds like you have both grown apart, if not that, its going to be hard for you to be just friends, feelings will never fade away, either one would not heal from the breakup, I would cut ties for a bit, but ask me, I know its hard. Try to be around ppl and friends, keep busy the best way you can, its plain and simple, if she wants you, she knows how to find you, not saying NC, but LC for now, till your able to heal and or she can. LiL yea i know. its really hard for me since we did alot of stuff together and later on shes tellin me that she wasnt lookin for something serious wen we slept together and had sex.. and now shes with her ex bf where they been together for 3 years and he left her..but now they are "good friends" **** if my ex left me after 3 years i wouldnt be good friends. ya thats what ive been doing but the people i hang out with shes there at the party. so either i can just ignore her presence..but honestly i want to get back with her later in the future. u know make her realize what i did was a mistake and i did what i could to win her back..
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