countingstarsagain Posted January 31, 2010 Posted January 31, 2010 ..is a terrible idea. I've been doing really great 3 months after the break up. I've been planning a spring break trip to the beach with my new friends. Meanwhile, I realized my new bikini and all of my beach towels were at my ex's house. I asked my best friend to contact him and try to get my things back for me without me having to be a part of it. She sent him a message on myspace listing the items that were at his house and told him to let her know when a good time would be and they could meet up. Things backfired. He starts texting me. Not what I wanted at all. He says I don't know why this stuff even matters now. I'm starting to feel that post-breakup depression all over again I hope he doesn't think I wanted to make contact with him. Just wanted my beach stuff back. I feel terrible. Now I wish I would have just replaced everything. Ugh. Advice: if anyone has been putting off getting their things back to avoid the pain, just don't do it at all. It comes back.
JoJola Posted January 31, 2010 Posted January 31, 2010 I am two weeks into my breakup with NC..now my ex has a bracelet at his house that my mother gave me; sentimental value! I am still mourning the relationship so my thought is to contact him to get it back..but you are probably right. I have a question..did this guy text u once about your belongings or are you two going back and forth?
Author countingstarsagain Posted February 1, 2010 Author Posted February 1, 2010 I suggest you get someone to go get the bracelet for you now before it gets too awkward. We've been basically in NC for two and a half months now. He's texted me happy thanksgiving and merry christmas but I didn't reply. Right before we stopped talking he was texting me to come and get my tv. I just totally ignored him because I felt like there's no way I could see him yet. He was trying to give my items back one-by-one it seems. Now he says he doesn't feel like meeting one of my friends to make the exchange. He also said I don't see why any of this matter nows. I gave everything of his back a few days after the break up. I thought I was almost over him, but now I feel like I did a month ago. Everytime I've tried to get my things back, he simply doesn't comply. I'm just going to take a loss on these items and take what's left of my dignity with me. As much as I'd like my things back, it's just not worth getting my feelings hurt over. Best of luck!
almostpassedit Posted February 1, 2010 Posted February 1, 2010 Food for thought: My ex, the one that was sucking someone else cock wouldn't give me my items back. She kept my $400 sweater. Its almost as if it wasn't even a thought on her mind, like she was too busy to be bothered with dealing with it. I took that as a lost. My other EX whom I left. I had some of her stuff, mostly make up, I don't think she cared about it, I tried to give it back to her but she wouldn't answer my calls. I don't think she wanted it, I kept it another few months, then threw it away. Its not worth it, take it as a loss or get hurt again.
Morgued Posted February 2, 2010 Posted February 2, 2010 Food for thought: My ex, the one that was sucking someone else cock wouldn't give me my items back. She kept my $400 sweater. Its almost as if it wasn't even a thought on her mind, like she was too busy to be bothered with dealing with it. I took that as a lost. My other EX whom I left. I had some of her stuff, mostly make up, I don't think she cared about it, I tried to give it back to her but she wouldn't answer my calls. I don't think she wanted it, I kept it another few months, then threw it away. Its not worth it, take it as a loss or get hurt again. OMG, why would you buy a 400$ sweater?! ...Can it stop a bullet or something? A little off topic I know, but I felt I needed to ask
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