Dark_of_the_Moon Posted January 31, 2010 Posted January 31, 2010 OK...I can't believe I am asking this but...here I am! Met a guy recently, have been chatting with him and joking around...nothing serious. He is 27. Now, I will be the first to admit I am naive in some ways and this dating game has rules and such I don't understand. However, I have only known this guy for a couple weeks, we have done nothing sexual or anything stronger than flirtation. This guy sends me a stack of e-mails with pictures of his naked self. WHY? What is he thinking? I am serious...I did not ask to see him....If I want to see your body I will be the first to tell you. But pictures from your computer to mine? Unsolicited no less. ....so...WHY? I am completely boggled.
OnlyJake Posted January 31, 2010 Posted January 31, 2010 What kinds of things have you been joking about? How heavy is the flirting?
fiatflux Posted January 31, 2010 Posted January 31, 2010 That is extremely bizarre. I would advise you to NEXT him.
Author Dark_of_the_Moon Posted January 31, 2010 Author Posted January 31, 2010 We have been joking about work and people watching and the world, casual stuff! Mostly we have been hanging out with other people so the flirting is very light. Yes, I am clear that he is interested, but we have not dated nor have I told him we even would. I am not sure what type of guy he is...though I think he gave me a pretty good idea just now. If this is an ice breaker...then its using heavy explosives..... I am doing a lot of laughing though...so....
Author Dark_of_the_Moon Posted January 31, 2010 Author Posted January 31, 2010 yes I am sure I will NEXT him.....does not seem like my type at ALL. But, seriously...WHAT was he thinking? I do NOT understand men at all some times! (Yes I am still laughing - at least men can amuse me at times.)
Itzo Posted January 31, 2010 Posted January 31, 2010 OK...I can't believe I am asking this but...here I am! Met a guy recently, have been chatting with him and joking around...nothing serious. He is 27. Now, I will be the first to admit I am naive in some ways and this dating game has rules and such I don't understand. However, I have only known this guy for a couple weeks, we have done nothing sexual or anything stronger than flirtation. This guy sends me a stack of e-mails with pictures of his naked self. WHY? What is he thinking? I am serious...I did not ask to see him....If I want to see your body I will be the first to tell you. But pictures from your computer to mine? Unsolicited no less. ....so...WHY? I am completely boggled. The reason why he's doing it is because this TURNS him ON! He wants to show you his body, so you can be "attracted" to his physical appearance. It is a message that he's after the sex for now. Nothin' serious ... Apparently, he's a very delusional persona.
You'reasian Posted January 31, 2010 Posted January 31, 2010 OK...I can't believe I am asking this but...here I am! Met a guy recently, have been chatting with him and joking around...nothing serious. He is 27. Now, I will be the first to admit I am naive in some ways and this dating game has rules and such I don't understand. However, I have only known this guy for a couple weeks, we have done nothing sexual or anything stronger than flirtation. This guy sends me a stack of e-mails with pictures of his naked self. WHY? What is he thinking? I am serious...I did not ask to see him....If I want to see your body I will be the first to tell you. But pictures from your computer to mine? Unsolicited no less. ....so...WHY? I am completely boggled. This is strange. Some women like this kind of thing, I'm guessing. He's probably been rewarded doing this before - which is why he's doing it again. Maybe he finds it amusing himself? I would pass.
TaraMaiden Posted January 31, 2010 Posted January 31, 2010 (edited) I once had this guy who kept doing this to me... The first couple of times I was shocked, and said nothing. I think he took this as a signal that I found it a turn-on and amusing... So I sent him a reply one day.... "My brother is right... naked guys do look like a sack of potatoes tied in the middle with string, with the knot-end hanging down! LOL!!" Strangely enough, I never heard from him again. Or you could reply by saying - "I think it's time I confessed. I am a gay male, and I think you're hot..... wanna meet...?" Edited January 31, 2010 by TaraMaiden
Explorer Posted January 31, 2010 Posted January 31, 2010 OK...I can't believe I am asking this but...here I am! Met a guy recently, have been chatting with him and joking around...nothing serious. He is 27. Now, I will be the first to admit I am naive in some ways and this dating game has rules and such I don't understand. However, I have only known this guy for a couple weeks, we have done nothing sexual or anything stronger than flirtation. This guy sends me a stack of e-mails with pictures of his naked self. WHY? What is he thinking? I am serious...I did not ask to see him....If I want to see your body I will be the first to tell you. But pictures from your computer to mine? Unsolicited no less. ....so...WHY? I am completely boggled. He probably misinterpreted your flirt signals or has had success with this approach before. Either way it's pretty unusual if you haven't even had sex with him.
O'Malley Posted January 31, 2010 Posted January 31, 2010 At least he revealed his shortcomings early on. You could let him know that unfortunately you're a size queen.... I always wonder about the wiring in someone's head when they send those kinds of images. Addicted to exhibitionism? Gauging your reaction to see if you're down for a bit of that?
superchick Posted January 31, 2010 Posted January 31, 2010 I met two guys in similar time span. One guy wanted a FWB situation and he would send me his naked pictures - he didn't care to impress me in any other way. I didn't give in although it was fun to watch . Now the other guy never did anything ridiculous like that. He didn't try to look for FWB situation therefore he used other ways to woo me - he's the one I'm still dating. I would say - look at his actions and evaluate. What can you tell about the guy who sends you half-naked pics? I think you have your answer . Good luck.
Crazy Magnet Posted February 1, 2010 Posted February 1, 2010 hahaha I would be laughing my rear end off if that happened to me. Mostly b/c it's about the one completely insane thing a guy hasn't tried on me....yet....there's always a first time. From what I know of people in their early 20's and teens, it's quite common nowadays to send (via email or mostly text message) naked or partially naked pictures to members of the opposite sex. This goes on outside of relationships. To me, it's nuts, to the people who enjoy it...I guess it seems normal. This guy seems a bit old for that if he's 27 though.
alphamale Posted February 1, 2010 Posted February 1, 2010 This guy sends me a stack of e-mails with pictures of his naked self. that is majorly creepy
skydiveaddict Posted February 1, 2010 Posted February 1, 2010 ....so...WHY? I am completely boggled. Cause he has some MAJOR issues. have nothing to do with him
start-fresh Posted February 1, 2010 Posted February 1, 2010 At least he revealed his shortcomings early on. :lmao::lmao: But, in all seriousness, I really don't understand people. I would never fathom doing anything like this. I would even feel weird doing something like that in a committed relationship.
skydiveaddict Posted February 1, 2010 Posted February 1, 2010 :lmao::lmao: But, in all seriousness, I really don't understand people. I would never fathom doing anything like this. I would even feel weird doing something like that in a committed relationship. I agree my friend. The only thing I can come up with is he has a severe case of clinical narcissism
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