curious83 Posted January 31, 2010 Posted January 31, 2010 Hi all, So I've been "dating" this guy for over three months now (we met on a dating site and had emailed back and forth for a little over a month before meeting). We go out pretty much about once a week. We also text/talk on the phone a few times a week. He has called our meetings dates and he pays for the vast majority of them. We hug at the end, but he hasn't made any move to kiss me. I am pretty shy and reserved and have never had to worry about making the first move in the past as I've always dated more aggressive guys that don't think twice about making the first move. However, I am a person who likes to know where I stand with people, so told him about 6 weeks ago that I liked him. He replied that he loved spending time with me but was unsure where things were going. The past few times we've gotten together have been initiated by him. When we do get-together we usually stay there hours talking. He has me in his favorite list in his phone along with his his mom. His body language is hard to read. I am in my mid-20s he is in his early thirties. Do you think this is a case of shy guy with maybe less dating experience or friend zone?
txsilkysmoothe Posted January 31, 2010 Posted January 31, 2010 A 30 year-old man dates a woman for three months and doen't kiss her? I'm sorry that just doesn't sound like a romantic interest. After three months, you should be comfortable enough with him to ask if he is romantically interested in you. If left to him, this could go on indefinitely.
Leia Posted January 31, 2010 Posted January 31, 2010 A 30 year-old man dates a woman for three months and doen't kiss her? I'm sorry that just doesn't sound like a romantic interest. After three months, you should be comfortable enough with him to ask if he is romantically interested in you. If left to him, this could go on indefinitely. Yea and shy or not, it doesn't take more than 3 months for guys to kiss a girl.
littlebittle Posted January 31, 2010 Posted January 31, 2010 you should ask him. you can say, "you know how i feel about you. it's ok if you don't feel the same way about me, but i would like to know if you are interested in me as more than a friend."
stevejohnson1976 Posted January 31, 2010 Posted January 31, 2010 Yea and shy or not, it doesn't take more than 3 months for guys to kiss a girl. unless your name is SteveJohnson:lmao: kidding... it does seem odd. why dont you go in for the kiss?
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