threebyfate Posted January 31, 2010 Posted January 31, 2010 I just want to add that I do like facial contact. If I really like a guy, I love pressing my forehead against his and peering into his eyes or stroking the outline of his cheeks. Really light kissing can also turn me on, when it's done in a teasing way. It's the full-blown french kissing that bores me most, because I can't really see his eyes and my mind is just focused on the inside of his mouth...which is less interesting to me. This has always been true for me, so I doubt it has much to do with the guys I've dated.If keeping your eyes open while kissing, is distracting you, close them and focus on the sensation of intimate contact, while french kissing. It's amazing!
CarbonCopy Posted January 31, 2010 Posted January 31, 2010 I don't hate kissing, but I much prefer touching, cuddling, etc. My ex was a great kisser and he especially loved to use his tongue. Me? I wasn't a fan of it at all, and it had nothing to do with "intimacy issues." It just did nothing for me. I didn't like making out. But I agree that those light kisses are very, very nice.
Explorer Posted January 31, 2010 Posted January 31, 2010 Has nothing to do with the guy. It's an activity that has never done anything for me. It doesn't make me feel more attracted or intimate, particularly french kissing. I far prefer cuddling, touching and sex. In fact I find kissing incredibly boring for the most part. Any other women feel this way? How many men have you kissed? Have you ever been in love?
Author shadowplay Posted January 31, 2010 Author Posted January 31, 2010 How many men have you kissed? Have you ever been in love? I've only kissed like seven or eight guys (I'm 26). I've been in love twice. Once it was unrequited and we never dated or kissed. The second time is with my current boyfriend.
PJKino Posted January 31, 2010 Posted January 31, 2010 I never want to be with a women whos not effectionate
Author shadowplay Posted January 31, 2010 Author Posted January 31, 2010 I never want to be with a women whos not effectionate Oh, I'm very affectionate. I love kissing my boyfriend on his face, neck and lightly on his lips. I also love cuddling and other forms of touching. Just never been a fan of french kissing.
Explorer Posted January 31, 2010 Posted January 31, 2010 Oh, I'm very affectionate. I love kissing my boyfriend on his face, neck and lightly on his lips. I also love cuddling and other forms of touching. Just never been a fan of french kissing. Assuming your boyfrend doesn't mind, why can't it rest as a preference and not a problem?
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