shadowplay Posted January 31, 2010 Posted January 31, 2010 Has nothing to do with the guy. It's an activity that has never done anything for me. It doesn't make me feel more attracted or intimate, particularly french kissing. I far prefer cuddling, touching and sex. In fact I find kissing incredibly boring for the most part. Any other women feel this way?
tkgirl Posted January 31, 2010 Posted January 31, 2010 (edited) Has nothing to do with the guy. It's an activity that has never done anything for me. It doesn't make me feel more attracted or intimate, particularly french kissing. I far prefer cuddling, touching and sex. In fact I find kissing incredibly boring for the most part. Any other women feel this way? no way.. not me! I LOVE to kiss!!! I think it's my favorite thing to do.. ever! in the whole world! The last guy I dated.. we could make out for hours and it was great... didn't even lead to sex every time. I felt like I was in high school all over again... sigh, I still miss him sometimes... oh yea.. on another note... I like your avatar. Siamese Dream one of my favorite albums and lately I have been listening to it a lot again. Edited January 31, 2010 by tkgirl
Angel1111 Posted January 31, 2010 Posted January 31, 2010 No. I LOVE kissing, especially French kissing. It's right up there with love-making. I can't imagine not liking kissing.
SOLACEMENT Posted January 31, 2010 Posted January 31, 2010 Has nothing to do with the guy. It's an activity that has never done anything for me. It doesn't make me feel more attracted or intimate, particularly french kissing. I far prefer cuddling, touching and sex. In fact I find kissing incredibly boring for the most part. Any other women feel this way? Same here..But I think I just suck at it so that may be why
Hot Carl Posted January 31, 2010 Posted January 31, 2010 Maybe it's because you haven't been with a guy who knows that kissing in a certain way is a very effective way to form an emotional connection. A good kiss is great way to connect.
Art_Critic Posted January 31, 2010 Posted January 31, 2010 Maybe it's because you haven't been with a guy who knows that kissing in a certain way is a very effective way to form an emotional connection. A good kiss is great way to connect. That actually is what I was thinking...
SadandConfusedWA Posted January 31, 2010 Posted January 31, 2010 I don't like it either. It doesn't turn me on and I find it kind of yucky in a way. I can remember one guy where I felt turned on by kissing him, but I have had a crush on him for years and was SO hot for him that pretty much anything he did turned me on. So for me, chemistry has to be off the charts to enjoy it. But with all the other guys, I kept thinking "gawd, how much more of this until we move on to sex.."
Devil Inside Posted January 31, 2010 Posted January 31, 2010 I'm a guy...but I'll weigh in. I love kissing. It is such a bummer you are not into it...it can be so hot.
whichwayisup Posted January 31, 2010 Posted January 31, 2010 The electricity that runs through your body when kissing is amazing. Hairs stand up on end and that energy runs from head to toe, and makes your knees weak, where you can barely stand up......... MMMMMMMM.
threebyfate Posted January 31, 2010 Posted January 31, 2010 Deep french kissing just ramps up desire like nothing else so no, I don't find it boring at all. It's very intimate and sensuous in nature, if it's done properly.
Leia Posted January 31, 2010 Posted January 31, 2010 I just kissed my cat on the nose. Nothing. Try french-kissing.
Hot Carl Posted January 31, 2010 Posted January 31, 2010 She seemed a little perturbed. I have a new scratch. Not sure whether it's a complimentary scratch.
SoulSearch_CO Posted January 31, 2010 Posted January 31, 2010 I love kissing! It gets me all excited.
Star Gazer Posted January 31, 2010 Posted January 31, 2010 I don't like it either. It doesn't turn me on and I find it kind of yucky in a way. Interesting. Both of you seem to have intimacy issues as well.
threebyfate Posted January 31, 2010 Posted January 31, 2010 shadow, a suggestion for you to try. Take your lip moisturizer, not gloss or lipstick, and sensuously rub some onto his lips. Do the same for yours, until both your lips are smooth and slippery. Then replace the stick with your lips, just moving your lips against his. Gently get him to open his lips and deepen the kiss, keeping that sensuous motion going, using both your lips and your tongue. Be patient, no sharp or quick movements. You might surprise yourself, how amazing this can feel.
counterman Posted January 31, 2010 Posted January 31, 2010 Yeah, I love kissing! Gets me all hot inside and worked up.
Art_Critic Posted January 31, 2010 Posted January 31, 2010 shadow, a suggestion for you to try. Take your lip moisturizer, not gloss or lipstick, and sensuously rub some onto his lips. Do the same for yours, until both your lips are smooth and slippery. Then replace the stick with your lips, just moving your lips against his. Gently get him to open his lips and deepen the kiss, keeping that sensuous motion going, using both your lips and your tongue. Be patient, no sharp or quick movements. You might surprise yourself, how amazing this can feel. Careful Shadow.. the last time TBF kissed like that she got pregnant hahahahaha
threebyfate Posted January 31, 2010 Posted January 31, 2010 Careful Shadow.. the last time TBF kissed like that she got pregnant hahahahahaPregnancy or not, we still kiss like this! :bunny:
Art_Critic Posted January 31, 2010 Posted January 31, 2010 Pregnancy or not, we still kiss like this! :bunny: Already planning another ?
threebyfate Posted January 31, 2010 Posted January 31, 2010 Already planning another ? We'll see. We might. Regardless, we'll keep practicing.
Citizen Erased Posted January 31, 2010 Posted January 31, 2010 Interesting. Both of you seem to have intimacy issues as well. This would make sense...I love kissing, even if it's not leading to sex... it can be sweet and romantic and even cute. When my feelings for my ex started to fade, I no longer wanted to although I had no problem with having sex with him, go figure. I don't know, those times when you're kissing someone and you can both feel how intensely you feel for each other, I could never find that boring.
threebyfate Posted January 31, 2010 Posted January 31, 2010 I'm not convinced that shadow has intimacy issues. More an unrealized quality about her. There's someone inside who wants to connect but is afraid of hurt and doesn't completely know how to reach out, yet. This is different from the other member, who just blunders self-indulgently from one emotion to the next, incapable of empathy for others.
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