jwork313 Posted January 31, 2010 Posted January 31, 2010 I was dumped back in the middle of April in 2009. The day I got dumped I was truly shocked because it came out of nowhere. We were together for 6 months and I was under the impression that things were progressing at a good pace. About 4 months into the relationship I knew I loved her. Around the same time I was starting to have trouble with my health. I had to see the doctor several times due to my health. While I was going through my health issues, she always appeared supportive and encouraging to me. She would always say she was praying for me and how much she cared for me. About 10 days before I was dumped , I had to go to the emergency room because of a bad headache. I was given a CAT Scan. unfortunately, the scan came up abnormal with a few subtle spots on my brain. The er doctor said it was possible MS based on the symptoms I was experiencing for a few months. I was then advised to set up an appointment with a neurologist. After going to the ER, I told her about what the ER doctor said. After that time, in hindsight she became distant from me. Needless to say about a week later we had a talk at lunch and she said me being unhealthy was unfair to her because everything became about my well-being. She actually made me feel guilty. She also said she didn't want to see me suffer. She said she couldn't marry someone with MS because she woudn't want to have kids with someone with MS and she would have to help take care of me. 3 days later she dumped me because of my health. She doesn't even talk to me anymore. I feel so worthless.
Catseye8 Posted January 31, 2010 Posted January 31, 2010 Doesn't sound like you're the one who should feel worthless, here. It would be one thing to say "You have health issues which mean you can't ever be in the kind of relationship I want from my life," but to say that you being ill is unfair to her and then dump you based on a possible prognosis? Good lord.
LostInLimbo Posted January 31, 2010 Posted January 31, 2010 Be Thankful, you didn't get sick after you married this winner, thats cold, move on, you don't need that type in your life.... LiL
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