1life8love1trust Posted January 31, 2010 Posted January 31, 2010 Sup guys? Been a while since I have posted up anything. A lot has happened. A lot of negatives but some positives to kinda balance the scales. I won't go into details about that though. So I read a couple of new posts and well I realized something. What if we were right for each other but the timing of our meeting was off? So a little heads up on me. My GF of 3 years left me for another dude. Complete opposite and well from what I could see, she was attracted to him through physically and because he bought her stuff. I am not saying she is materialistic.....ok never mind what I just shared totally makes her one. No real reason why she would leave me, I was in shape, my career was taking off, and I tried to treat her as a princess. So my point. When I first met her I knew she was the one. As time with her went by, I knew that the timing of our relationship was off. I mean she is only six months older than me, but our understanding of relationship was off. A lot of people tell me that, when I love, I love beyond anything else. Not that I am saying her love was not, it was just the things she did. For example, she would have a guy friends and she would do things that a sister would do to a brother. Like playful stuff. Hanging on their arms and stuff like that. I asked her how she felt if a chick friend of mine did that and how she would feel? She said it was different cause she grew up with these guys and they were like her older brother. Other thing too was that she was still friends with her exes. I didnt care about her memory box, as a matterof fact I told her when we broke I didnt want to be in her stupid memory box. Heck I refuse to be her friend. Its Lover or Nothing! So with that said, I always knew that our maturity levels were off. Its been some time now, 4months and well I hope she finds what shes looking for. There was also the fact that she wanted a perfect relationship. Whatever she meant by that. I told her all relationship have arguements and fights. I hope that this new one she left me for is that perfect relationship. Whats you guys take? I mean I still miss her. But at the same time I don't want her to get hurt. I have not talk or made any contact in over 2 months. No Facebook, deleted her number, all I have is a vision of her in my head.
Ashkayi Posted February 2, 2010 Posted February 2, 2010 I would continue to move on and away from that. She obviously wanted to leave you for someone else, and to me that is just unforgivable in all aspects. You seen genuine, I hope you find someone whom makes you happy. =)
DustySaltus Posted February 2, 2010 Posted February 2, 2010 When a girl has a lot of guy friends it can put you in a very uncomfortable situation. I'm not a jealous person, but i'm as jealous as a man should be. As men we are not naive. It's hard for someone to be friends with a girl a long time and for their not to be an attraction. With that being said, I can't ever accept coming in second place nor should you.
leima Posted February 7, 2010 Posted February 7, 2010 Dear 1life8love1trus, I think you should move on with your life. I think that at this point no matter what you do it will just fall on deaf ears. I also believe that if she is not ready no matter how much you show her she wouldn't understand. Maybe she never will... I also do know that you shouldn't deprive yourself a life that could be. Please be strong and love yourself. She's not ready for you or anyone at the moment. Maybe after you finish reading this you will meet that one girl that will click with you.
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