Author aroll32 Posted February 1, 2010 Author Posted February 1, 2010 Sigh. Aroll we should be charging you for this advice by the word, you're not even bothering to read or understand it. Maybe everyone has to go through the same life experience crap themselves? Every single guy who has responded to you has gone through exactly what you're going through at least once and more likely multiple times. It's typical. It's "standard." I guess you could say you and she are "playing games" with each other but basically at this point wasting another thought on her is counterproductive, a total waste of time. The BEST thing you could do would be stop thinking about her. Go chase some other girls for a while. It doesn't really matter, this obviously is not the girl you're going to fall in love with and marry. You haven't even MET that girl yet. The quicker you get beyond this one, the closer you will get to meeting your true love. I am sorry butternut, I really just got caught up in the whole situation. Having my normal thoughts be overrun by thoughts of her. And I am getting back on the right path, but it hasn't been that long. I'm sure after this weekend my thoughts will be elsewhere. Thanks
torranceshipman Posted February 1, 2010 Posted February 1, 2010 From my simple experience I seem to agree. Haven't had one girl that doesn't eventually hurt me in some way or another or just stop making contact. Your thoughts? Why would you immediately assume this is because you are a 'nice guy'?! Could be for 10 other completely different reasons. Why the trend to blame 'being a nice guy' on dating failure all the time? Not saying you're NOT a nice guy by the way, I am sure you are We all get dumped on some time, nice or nasty, just keep on truckin and you'll eventually find the right person who really loves you, as long as you dont let the bad ones bring you down too much...
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