eternal.denied84 Posted January 30, 2010 Posted January 30, 2010 should you listen to you ex request of removing her frnds from social network..? well i am trying to be on NC with my ex who has broken my heart..she has been downright mean to me during the breakup..everytime i initiated NC..she contacted me for something or the else and i went back to day 1..i don't know what happens to me the moment i talk to her all my emotions burst up and i go insane seeing her cold and rude behaviour.. finally 15 days before i decided this will not work till the time i will have good feelings for her..i find it difficult to not to pick up her calls and stuff but finally i made a strong decision ..send her a note to not to contact me and advocating NC from past 15 days..i am doing better. out of blue i got a mail from her that she sees her frnds are there in my social network..and she wants them to be deleted off my list..i get so pissed with this.. Last time when i was on NC..she contacted me for removing her frnds from fb..which i did after arguing with her because i was not feeling justified with her request..why the hell should i remove them..? if she has problems she can ask them to remove me..isn't it? if she hates me so much then why asking me? ask them.but anyways at last i agreed to her and did what she wanted..and the moment i did that..when i contacted her..she became so mean and insulting to me..which hurt me a lot..that shows how selfish this girl is. obviously when you get dumped your self esteem get a hit..i am coping with that..and on top of that when you get this type of stuff. remove my friends..i don't want even a remote link to you..this kills my self esteem ,confidence and dignity and i start asking me..what have i done so wrong? she broke up..she became mean..insulting..and i am suffering. okay so my question is ..this time should i listen to her request? and if at all..what should i do..just remove her frnds and dont reply to mail? or shud i reply that i have removed them? personally i don't want to listen to her..because she has not done any good to me..but still i would do what is right..and i can't take right decision coz i am involved with emotions..please help. PS : i am doing better.After going through all this phase and the way she has been with me I have realized that i definitely don't want a life partner like her.I still get hurt but i am giving more power to reality rather that being in my fantasy world.
DiscoChick Posted January 30, 2010 Posted January 30, 2010 You sound as if you already know what to do. Stay away from her and ignore her attempts to contact you. stick to what you're doing. Be strong, man.
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