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He isn't over his ex

Krys612

By Krys612
in Breaks and Breaking Up

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I finally met the perfect guy for me. Every quality I had ever wanted in a guy, everything that I found in people that I had dated that I liked, all combined into one amazing person. In 3 weeks I grew to care about this guy more than I've cared about anyone in my entire life and it scares me because I've been in serious relationships before.

 

And to him I was everything he has ever looked for or wanted yet the only problem is that he recently realized that he isn't over his ex. They had been together for 3 years and had only been broken up for 3 months when I met him. He told me that he feels like his heart is divided in half and it isn't fair to me if his heart isn't 100% mine.

 

He wants to stay best friends with me because "I'm too amazing to completely let me out of his life" It would be much easier if I didn't care about him or if he didn't care about me, but that isn't the case. I don't want to let go of the best person I've ever met yet I don't want to feel like I'm being strung along until he decides what his heart really wants.

 

What should I do?

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Hello Krys612,

 

This is difficult situation but I think you need to give him some space for now and let him figure out what he wants exactly. He has been honest and said that his feelings are divided and I think for this reason, you need to leave him to it for a while. Actions speak louder than words in my opinion, and if he really thinks you are too amazing to not have around, he will be back when he feels he is ready.

 

On the other hand, if you feel strong enough to give him friendship and not expect anything more, then why not be friends with him. It does sound like you would want more though, and as you said, you don't want to be strung along.

 

It is so so tough when you really care about someone and feel that you have something special, but if his heart is still elsewhere, getting any further involved could lead to heartache for you. I'd be thankful that he has been honest with you and it may just be a case of bad timing for now - you don't know what might happen in a few months when he figures out what he wants :)

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