Author Stephm67 Posted February 8, 2010 Author Posted February 8, 2010 Sounds to me like you were a loving guy and didn't do anything wrong. Stop blaming yourself! Just like I didn't do anything wrong and got rejected. People change; I'm in love with the old version of my ex, but the new version?...good riddance. Why would you want to be with someone who makes you feel like crap? (This attitude helps me, instead of focusing on the pain.) Ah yes, the division of the property! My ex fiance and I will be doing that on Saturday when I pack. Let me know how it goes for you. Take a strong stance on the items you want; you deserve it. The good news is that packing and moving doesn't take more than a day or two. Once you are out of there you will feel so much better. I know I will. P.S. You got the girls lined up for dates already? Geez, now I'm just jealous! Well next week is when I start going through all the stuff. Right now I have to prepare for an interview for a job I really want. Still hard to concentrate on that though. I went out on Saturday with a few buddies and we hit a bar. Woke up hungover and regretted it right away. Felt twice as bad. Not gonna do that again for a while. It's so very hard trying to figure out how all this could have happened. We were so very happy. Damn this hurts
Author Stephm67 Posted February 8, 2010 Author Posted February 8, 2010 Hey man, I was in a very similar situation to yours just a few months ago. I was stuck living in a house with my ex fiance for two 1/2 months. It was wild and very difficult I have to say and made it extremely tough on me. I nearly lost my mind more than a few times. It was not healthy in any way. She recently left the house for good, about two weeks ago. In that two weeks I have healed more than in the whole time she was living here. That was even with me being around her as little as possible during that time. I never broke down in front of her. Not living with her has done wonders for my healing process, and I feel better now than I have in a long long time. The point here is, GET OUT OF THAT HOUSE, whatever it takes, just do it. My situation is also similar to yours in that nothing crazy really happened, she just lost her feelings for me, sex life and all. It all sounded so familiar reading your post. I know it hurts now, but these things happen and you will soon realize that you are better off in the long run. I know this because it's happening to me, and if I can make it, anyone can. I wish you the best of luck, and oh yah, already got dates lined up? Nice one mate, I did the same, and it was... know what, I'll let you figure that one out on your own, have fun! Wow, sounds identical. Well I have until the end of March to get a new place. One month earlier then April as we were able to get out of the lease early. Ya, it hurts so bad. I see her in the house and I jsut wanna put my arms around her and kiss her deeply. This will never happen again. lol...I wish there was a bunch lined up, but only a few here and there. Nothing has really panned out as I'm just not into it and I even feel guilty for going out. Like I'm cheating or something. Wow, is this ever gonna end?!
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