USMCHokie Posted January 30, 2010 Posted January 30, 2010 So here I am, in Tampa, Florida, the night before Gasparilla (a huge all-day drunk-fest), and I go out with a bunch of friends... My roommate from college who I'm staying with down here tells me that "I just need to go down to the bar and say hi to a girl, and it's guaranteed that I'd get laid." I will admit that after being down here as many times as I have, he's correct...it's crazy in this town... And yet, at 1 AM, I decided I'd rather come back to his house, sit on LS, and get ready to go to sleep...alone...again... He is rather upset with me...because he knows I'm still not over the breakup from 6 months ago...and that I need to be out there "getting over someone by getting on top of someone"...(his words, not mine...) But seriously...what is wrong with me...?
counterman Posted January 30, 2010 Posted January 30, 2010 Nothing is wrong with you. If I am still not over a break-up, I might not be in the mood to do that. But, seriously, kissing another girl.. and maybe having sex with her does make a difference.
boogieboy Posted January 30, 2010 Posted January 30, 2010 (edited) Ive been through this. You arent really ready to deal with new personalities yet, dont want to deal with the anxiety of approaching women dont want to meet new people yet.... Dont worry though, you can approach this mentaliy two ways... If you wait long enough, you WILL eventually get the urge to get yourself out there and meet women again.. What I found out is that once I started talking to women, (introductions, or approaches) and got them to engage and laugh, my confidence came back instantly. Its just getting over not wanting to approach them. I realized its more fun to be the life of the party, than it was to sit and make excuses not to go out. i feel ya brudda. You have choices. Edited January 30, 2010 by boogieboy
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