creyente7 Posted January 30, 2010 Posted January 30, 2010 (edited) ok so last week i was really/totally freaking out because i thought my girlfriend was loosing feelings for me and that she might break up with me, so i talked to her friends and asked if my girlfriend has said anything to her, she denied to say anything the first few i asked then she suddenly txted me and said "yea, actually she did say something, she said you were being clingy again" sooo ahah! ive come to a conclusion and that she needs space! I know ive been needy and a selfish jerk, finals and exams are coming soon and school is getting really tough, if i was in her shoe she wouldnt want to be bothered also, i didnt realize that because i was only thinking about myself... but you see, i only see her at a max of 3 times a week for not more than 30 minutes, so i wouldnt call that as clingy. but maybe she really does need space so my main question is, if a girl loves you, she wont break up with you just cuz your clingy right? would that be shallow? how much time should i not see her? should i talk to her at all? how do i give her space and at the same time let her know that i still exist... i got more questions to ask but this would be a good start... she still hasnt talked to me, replied to my emails, or called me... but she did call me when she got out of school to tell me that nothing was wrong and that school is starting to get hectic... and that she's really sorry because she didnt mean to make me mad because she was ignoring me... Edited January 30, 2010 by creyente7
counterman Posted January 30, 2010 Posted January 30, 2010 Girls do break up with guys because they are clingy. It would reek of desperation and neediness, which is not a turn on at all. Just make sure that you have other things going for you as well. You can hang with your friends, pursue other interests and have other commitments other than your girlfriend. You should have a life outside of her. She will know you still exist if she really likes you. She'll come to you after all the exams.
BG1985 Posted January 30, 2010 Posted January 30, 2010 It's not a good sign if she's not replying to texts, emails, etc. Also, keep her friends out of this. A girlfriend's friends only screw things up. I know this from personal experience.
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