Author jdefc Posted February 14, 2010 Author Posted February 14, 2010 I did contact his wife but she was really offensive and didn't want to talk to me. Maybe I'll do nothing but will probably send her a letter, not relaying all the details but offering her my number in case she really wants to know everything about her charming husband. My ex has handed in her notice at work and is adament that she can't live without me! The affair was probably on and off for a good 4 months and she probably had the initial idea about 6 months ago. she blames her ego among other things but wonders how i can just walk away. regards
mark982 Posted February 14, 2010 Posted February 14, 2010 you just didn't WALK away. tell her, that her whoring made you walk away.
SoulStorm Posted February 14, 2010 Posted February 14, 2010 I did contact his wife but she was really offensive and didn't want to talk to me. Maybe I'll do nothing but will probably send her a letter, not relaying all the details but offering her my number in case she really wants to know everything about her charming husband. My ex has handed in her notice at work and is adament that she can't live without me! The affair was probably on and off for a good 4 months and she probably had the initial idea about 6 months ago. she blames her ego among other things but wonders how i can just walk away. regards Ask her if she couldn't live without you, why would she sleep with her boss on and off for 4 months and expect you to stay if you found out? She threw away the 4 years..not you. She walked away first
seibert253 Posted February 14, 2010 Posted February 14, 2010 Ask her if she couldn't live without you, why would she sleep with her boss on and off for 4 months and expect you to stay if you found out? She threw away the 4 years..not you. She walked away first Couldn't have said it any better.
Author jdefc Posted February 19, 2010 Author Posted February 19, 2010 (edited) She thinks exactly the same as you[sIZE=5][COLOR=#990000]mybrowneyedgir[/COLOR][/sIZE]L. But how can it ever be as good as it was? At least from my perspective. Edited February 19, 2010 by jdefc
Chrome Barracuda Posted February 20, 2010 Posted February 20, 2010 Leave her alone. She isnt worth it! If she wants to reconsile actions speak louder than words.
inlovewithboss Posted February 21, 2010 Posted February 21, 2010 This is some insight from someone whom has had an affair with thier boss, once you have gone to that place, got caught, but repeat it again, you will not change. Revenge is not the answer,,,,,it is not up to you to tell his wife, you need to move on with your life......This is probably not the first time her boss has cheated on his wife, she probably already knows of his discretions. It is not your duty to tell her. Your focus should be to let your girlfriend go, you will never be able to trust her again, is that worth it? Are you worth something better? Are you deserving of a woman that loves you unconditionally? You are not the reason she cheated, nor are you the solution that ends her cheating... Eleanor Roosevelt said something along the lines of "people can't abuse you without your permission" So, stop giving her permission!!
Untouchable_Fire Posted February 22, 2010 Posted February 22, 2010 She thinks exactly the same as you[sIZE=5][COLOR=#990000]mybrowneyedgir[/COLOR][/sIZE]L. But how can it ever be as good as it was? At least from my perspective. Listen, jdefc... people experience love differently. Those who are like MBEG, and your xGF don't experience love in the same way people like you and I do. Do not take her back... there is a level of self absorption there that you will never be able to comprehend or penetrate.
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