prayingshecomesback Posted January 30, 2010 Posted January 30, 2010 I gave up on the bars and clubs. Church is where all the NICE ladies are. And damn they are attractive. It is serious hottie overload in there. I joined a 20-30 year old gathering group Sunday nights and these girls are the nicest most loving caring girls. Not the selfish "so what do you do for a living, how much do you make a year" type of girls. And...the most important thing...is they are after god's heart. Which I am too. Church is a great place to find your partner.
Art_Critic Posted January 30, 2010 Posted January 30, 2010 Dang, when I saw the thread title, I was sure the answer was going to be: "The cemetery." He said "good" girls not "cold" girls Finding girls at church only works if they are there because they think the guys will find them there. If they are there for nay other reason than that then the chances of a match happening are nill and none.
DiscoChick Posted January 30, 2010 Posted January 30, 2010 And...the most important thing...is they are after god's heart. Which I am too. Church is a great place to find your partner. I totally agree. If only I could find a great guy at church!
Author prayingshecomesback Posted January 30, 2010 Author Posted January 30, 2010 They sound boring. I have dated the hot and high maintenence type. They were the most stuck on themselves girls I have ever met. Selfish, snobby and only cared about money and their status. That is the type of girl that will put you in your grave early after you try your hardest to get rich and please them that way. The girls I have met at church are as down to earth as you get. And Im not talking about the girls who go to church so they can show off their new dress. Im talking about the girls who really do love god and care about other people more than themselves. They are really not boring at all. I have met some smart, outgoing, and full of life type of girls. Girls you can trust too. And did I mention, really attractive girls? some were smoking hot... hotter than any girl I met at a bar.
Author prayingshecomesback Posted January 30, 2010 Author Posted January 30, 2010 I totally agree. If only I could find a great guy at church! One day... you will! At God's timing... I wish he would hurry up though in both our cases!!
Art_Critic Posted January 30, 2010 Posted January 30, 2010 Politics and Religion albeit it is important to have some balance among your views if you plan on having a successful relationship but to include them in the very beginning or the matching of a date if a tough row to hoe. You have mentioned the word hot many times in your posts already.. are you aware that looks don't make a relationship work.. Being fixated on looks all the while trying to show a woman your not superficial will be tough to pull off in the house of GOD... Good Luck
Author prayingshecomesback Posted January 30, 2010 Author Posted January 30, 2010 Politics and Religion albeit it is important to have some balance among your views if you plan on having a successful relationship but to include them in the very beginning or the matching of a date if a tough row to hoe. You have mentioned the word hot many times in your posts already.. are you aware that looks don't make a relationship work.. Being fixated on looks all the while trying to show a woman your not superficial will be tough to pull off in the house of GOD... Good Luck Im just saying there are alot of attractive girls at church, WHICH...you have to be attracted to the person to fall in love. That is a given. Looks should not be the main focus though. Like I said the reason I am going to church is because these girls are godly in character. And I honestly think that religion should be made the first priority and in the beginning in choosing your mate. I am not perfect and I have done some sinful things in my past and recently... but if I am in a relationship where the girl shares my same views on god and morals, a more fullfilling marriage will take place.
D-Jam Posted January 30, 2010 Posted January 30, 2010 Good call and good luck. They're out there, you all just need to find them.
Woggle Posted January 30, 2010 Posted January 30, 2010 So if a man doesn't want an entitled princess he has to settle for a Jesus freak?
DiscoChick Posted January 30, 2010 Posted January 30, 2010 Not all women that go to church are Jesus freaks. I suppose if a Jesus freak is someone that loves Jesus, then yes, I would be a Jesus freak. Or maybe you mean a bible thumper?
Woggle Posted January 30, 2010 Posted January 30, 2010 Not all women that go to church are Jesus freaks. I suppose if a Jesus freak is someone that loves Jesus, then yes, I would be a Jesus freak. Or maybe you mean a bible thumper? Same thing plus eventually they turn against that and want a taste of the bad side.
DiscoChick Posted January 30, 2010 Posted January 30, 2010 Same thing plus eventually they turn against that and want a taste of the bad side. Those aren't real Jesus freaks; those are backsliders. No true person that loves Jesus wants to "taste the bad side." Thanks. That reminded me of Star Wars.
Woggle Posted January 30, 2010 Posted January 30, 2010 Those aren't real Jesus freaks; those are backsliders. No true person that loves Jesus wants to "taste the bad side." Thanks. That reminded me of Star Wars. Every woman I know raised in a conservative background eventually turned against it and went nuts.
DiscoChick Posted January 30, 2010 Posted January 30, 2010 Every woman I know raised in a conservative background eventually turned against it and went nuts. Well, hello. I'm Tarneca. It is pleasant to meet you. I was raised with a conservative background and have no plans of going nuts. I don't drink, smoke, do drugs, or sleep with random men. I have never cheated in a relationship. I am respectful and enjoy life. If I go insane, it will be because of genetics, not my ploy to get away from the church.
start-fresh Posted January 30, 2010 Posted January 30, 2010 I go to church because I like the sense of community of people working together for 'a greater good'. I know it sounds cheesy but that's my opinion. I wouldn't mind dating someone with a religious background, but some people take it way over the top. Too many people use religion as a crutch and a way to hide from their problems.
A_guy Posted January 30, 2010 Posted January 30, 2010 Yea, church is a good place to meet that type of woman. From my limited experience, the good girls were the ones that were really good in bed. I mean this one girl especially....wow.
DiscoChick Posted January 30, 2010 Posted January 30, 2010 I go to church because I like the sense of community of people working together for 'a greater good'. I wish our church was still this way. I pray for them, a lot! These people argue over the most mundane things and act as if they forget God. They care about nothing but money and how many members we have. If I did not have such strong faith, I would abandon the place.
counterman Posted January 30, 2010 Posted January 30, 2010 Yes, church would be a wonderful place to go to. I wish I was devoted enough to regularly attend church. Some of the church activities seem really fun. So, I might consider going again...
cognac Posted January 30, 2010 Posted January 30, 2010 I know for sure I would find girls who like me and I like back at a church. I have a problem though, I'm not really religious and I am probably "too much" for most devoted Christian women. I like Christian values as a whole but I do not like how many Christian men these days are like the character of Ned Flander's, they try too hard to be really square, and that i assume these christian girls seek. I would love a woman like the ones who you meet at church, but would they like me? Not unless I completely revamped my personality. I am completely screwed because the few times I do find girls who find me attractive, there are times where there is a difference in values and women seldom are open to tolerate differences of opinion of values. I don't fit in anywhere, I am about 70% traditionalist/conservative and 30% insane renegade terrorist revolutionary who drinks hard and smokes.
start-fresh Posted January 30, 2010 Posted January 30, 2010 I know for sure I would find girls who like me and I like back at a church. I have a problem though, I'm not really religious and I am probably "too much" for most devoted Christian women. I like Christian values as a whole but I do not like how many Christian men these days are like the character of Ned Flander's, they try too hard to be really square, and that i assume these christian girls seek. I would love a woman like the ones who you meet at church, but would they like me? Not unless I completely revamped my personality. I am completely screwed because the few times I do find girls who find me attractive, there are times where there is a difference in values and women seldom are open to tolerate differences of opinion of values. I don't fit in anywhere, I am about 70% traditionalist/conservative and 30% insane renegade terrorist revolutionary who drinks hard and smokes. I don't know, not everybody at church is that square. You might have some false starts along the way, but there will be girls that would go for your 70/30 split. I'm a lot that way myself, although my 30% side sounds a little more tame. I know some really religious people my age and they annoy the hell out of me. You're 25 years old and afraid to swear, and refer to those words as foul language? Give me a break. It's crap like that that gives religion a bad name. Focus on the big picture of what religion stands for, not the minute details of what words you can say.
sagetalk Posted January 30, 2010 Posted January 30, 2010 There is no comparison between bar girls and genuine church girls (not the bar girls that go to church). The church girls are far better relationship partners in nearly every category. The biggest problem with them is that heathen guys and Christian guys both want them. If you can land one, you have done yourself a huge favor. Many of the ones I knew growing up were beauty pageant winners, didn't smoke, didn't (or rarely) drink, some were virgins until marriage by oath, gorgeous personalities (unselfish, kind, forgiving), no tatoos, man I need to stop typing before I give myself a heart attack just thinking about it. Amazing women .
sagetalk Posted January 30, 2010 Posted January 30, 2010 It's crap like that that gives religion a bad name. Focus on the big picture of what religion stands for, not the minute details of what words you can say. I have never smoked a cigarette in my life, never drank a drop of beer or wine in my life, and said only one curse word in my entire life. So this crap gives religion a bad name? You have to be kidding. These are the things that show dedication and loyalty. Instead of giving yourself to addictions (which all of the above are), you give that part of yourself and those desires to God. If you think those qualities give religion a bad name (sacrificing addictions and desires to God), then you know nothing about it.
DiscoChick Posted January 30, 2010 Posted January 30, 2010 I have never smoked a cigarette in my life, never drank a drop of beer or wine in my life, and said only one curse word in my entire life. So this crap gives religion a bad name? You have to be kidding. These are the things that show dedication and loyalty. Instead of giving yourself to addictions (which all of the above are), you give that part of yourself and those desires to God. If you think those qualities give religion a bad name (sacrificing addictions and desires to God), then you know nothing about it. I agree. I also commend you for saying only one curse word. I also feel awkward around people that curse too much. It's just weird. My parents didn't curse and I didn't feel the need to rebel against them, so why would I curse? People get the wrong idea about folks that value their religion. Of course you have those nuts that are all in people's faces with bibles or standing outside an abortion clinic. People don't like to see the positive; they want to focus on the negative so that they have justifications for calling Christian women that reject them condescending and uppity.
dreamergrl Posted January 30, 2010 Posted January 30, 2010 Im just saying there are alot of attractive girls at church, WHICH...you have to be attracted to the person to fall in love. That is a given. Looks should not be the main focus though. Like I said the reason I am going to church is because these girls are godly in character. And I honestly think that religion should be made the first priority and in the beginning in choosing your mate. I am not perfect and I have done some sinful things in my past and recently... but if I am in a relationship where the girl shares my same views on god and morals, a more fullfilling marriage will take place. I'm confused. If you believe that religion should be the first priority, why were you looking for girls in clubs? And why are you going to find a girl? If religion was so important to you, wouldn't you have realized these girls were there and a good match for you in the first place?
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