lchelling Posted January 29, 2010 Posted January 29, 2010 I've known this guy for about a year at work. He is a teacher but has a parttime job in the kitchen of the nursing home I work at. We've made great eye contact a few times and I've caught him glancing at me quite a few times and then looking away. He is always very attentive when I ask for things from the kitchen and even offers to run all over the building to find something small like a packet of lemon juice. I even found out that he was talking to a coworker of mine and said he doesn't like to work any other wing but mine because I spoil him with all the help I give the kitchen. All that points to he does but there are time its like I'm not even there. He talks to the other workers but not me, or completely walks by without even a glance. I've commented on his facebook and he completely ignored it even though it was funny what I said. Whats up with the mixed signals?
Ellezz Posted January 30, 2010 Posted January 30, 2010 I've known this guy for about a year at work. He is a teacher but has a parttime job in the kitchen of the nursing home I work at. We've made great eye contact a few times and I've caught him glancing at me quite a few times and then looking away. He is always very attentive when I ask for things from the kitchen and even offers to run all over the building to find something small like a packet of lemon juice. I even found out that he was talking to a coworker of mine and said he doesn't like to work any other wing but mine because I spoil him with all the help I give the kitchen. All that points to he does but there are time its like I'm not even there. He talks to the other workers but not me, or completely walks by without even a glance. I've commented on his facebook and he completely ignored it even though it was funny what I said. Whats up with the mixed signals? Can't really tell...Is he shy? That might explain why he doesn't talk to you, because he likes you too much. And maybe he doesn't use facebook that much? But don't get your hopes too high though, he may be just trying to be a good co-worker. It all depends on his personality.
OceanTropic Posted January 30, 2010 Posted January 30, 2010 He's either taken, and flirts when theres problems, or he doesn't know what he wants.
Author lchelling Posted January 30, 2010 Author Posted January 30, 2010 He's awkward with women definitly. I know hes not taken too. Hes on facebook quite often too. Update about that, just checked mine and he did leave a comment on my last update.
DiscoChick Posted January 30, 2010 Posted January 30, 2010 Girl, just ask him what's up. Share lunch with him one day and talk to him then.
A_guy Posted January 30, 2010 Posted January 30, 2010 Girl, just ask him what's up. Share lunch with him one day and talk to him then. Sounds like sound advice.
boogieboy Posted January 30, 2010 Posted January 30, 2010 Yeah try FLIRTING with him. Try a lil communication. You arent getting mixed signals, you havent actually had a real conversation with him yet. Youre going to have to take the reigns and make a move yourself, hes not gonna do it. he might be shy. How long you gonn await for him to make a move on you?
skydiveaddict Posted January 30, 2010 Posted January 30, 2010 ask him to take you skydiving. If he says no, then you dont want him anyway
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