jazzpur Posted January 29, 2010 Posted January 29, 2010 just curious if anyone has been dumped twice by the same person what hurt more, the first or the second time???
LoveOrb Posted January 29, 2010 Posted January 29, 2010 Second, I've went into a downward spiral and only barely lifted myself out. It took ALOT of self-reflection and even then I'm still thinking of her left and right. The first time was only easy because we lived together and she had very little choice in me being around. Thanks to that and some VERY long talks with her I was able to win her back.
twinklecat Posted January 29, 2010 Posted January 29, 2010 just curious if anyone has been dumped twice by the same person what hurt more, the first or the second time??? I've tried second chances twice, with 2 different guys - something I have learned, not to go back. This most recent ex, I ended it with him 4 years ago, I stupidly took him back 2 months later as I thought he'd changed. End result, I was left absolutely heartbroken and a mess (although much better now thankfully) as he left me 3 months ago for my best friend. So I can definitely say this one hurt more, I guess because last time it was my decision, and there wasn't all this betrayal.
bluewolf17 Posted January 29, 2010 Posted January 29, 2010 just curious if anyone has been dumped twice by the same person what hurt more, the first or the second time??? My first love..high school thing. We didn't date long, but I LOVED him.. So he dumps me. Fast forward like 3 years. We start seeing eachother again. I have some sick fantasy that this high school crush will go somewhere. That we were just meant to be. NOT! He told me he wasn't ready for a girlfriend, but if he was, he'd pick me because I am perfect. A month later he had a new girlfriend who was 5"2 100lbs. So not me! . He's bald now..jerk.
HeavenOrHell Posted January 30, 2010 Posted January 30, 2010 Took him back twice. The 3rd (and final) time he left me was worse for me
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